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ParkRun and Transgender record breaker

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PennysLane · 23/05/2023 23:09

Trans runner (M to F) has smashed a woman’s record. Turns out he’s an attempted murderer too.

He attempted to murder the HR Manager of U.K. Athletics after he investigated his eligibility to compete as a woman. (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lauren_Jeska )

I have enjoyed Parkrun on several occasions with my children, I’ll not be doing it again until they get this sorted. If at all.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/05/22/parkrun-self-id-male-runners-smash-womens-records/

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/05/23/transgender-murder-parkrun/

Parkrun women's record held by transgender attempted murderer

Feminist activists outraged as it is revealed the fun run record is held by Lauren Jeska, who was given an 18-year sentence in 2017

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/05/23/transgender-murder-parkrun/

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Frabbits · 24/05/2023 11:34

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:29

Exactly this, it isnt a race however much you want it to be.
If you feel the need to race against others, maybe youd be better off joining an actual race.
Park run is an inclusive to all, whether you're walking round with a pram, or mix walking and jogging (my personal preference, when I actually go that is 😁) jog slowly round, or race round it.
Making out that it's a race when it's nothing of the sort I'd have thought would actually deter some thinking about joining

If it truly isn't a race then Parkrun should stop publishing records then, shouldn't they?

Truth is, for some people it absolutely is a race, for others it is not. It can be both things.

randomsabreuse · 24/05/2023 11:35

lifeturnsonadime · 24/05/2023 10:35

Because the principal applies to all of life now.

Men who say that they are women think they have the right to be treated as such.

Women are entitled to have an opinion on this. It doesn't matter if you haven't done a park run, if you think that women exist independently of men who identify as trans, then this issue is one that matters.

And it really fucking matters if you have a daughter with an interest in sport. My daughter is training and has a dream of being a professional cricketer. Should her dream be smashed if a mediocre male decides to identify as a woman to get a professional contract?

Park run or small events are the thin end of the wedge.

I don't see how parkrun as a fun run can be a thin end of the wedge. Organised races where there are penalties for swapping numbers and actual prizes is where things become more official but unlimited numbers grass roots sports is a lot less relevant than any team sports or where people are directly knocked out of the competition because no opportunities are taken away.

One particular parkrun had what I called the path of temptation which cut off a few hundred metres and always called to me as I was struggling up the hill (zigzag path). I always considered it then realised I was only going to cheat myself, but every week on the second lap, the thought was there.

If I'm not running with a friend, the person just in front of me is my competition. As is anyone coming up behind them. I don't care if they're in my category or not, just by giving me a reason to keep running (rather than walk) they give me a time boost.

MrsJamin · 24/05/2023 11:36

If it isn't a race, they need to remove age/sex gradings. It's as simple as that. But they won't as they know how much this motivates many to participate and to keep participating.
So as an alternative, they need to stop endorsing lying on the form as per this marketing piece https://blog.parkrun.com/uk/2020/02/12/where-i-know-im-always-welcome/ and ask people to be honest about their sex, putting male/female/would rather not say. That would be a start. And if you 'would rather not say' your score is not entered into age/sex categories. This isn't hard for parkrun, they just don't want to get hassled by the woke online mob.

Where I know I'm always welcome | parkrun UK Blog

For Kate Hodge, Saturday morning means Brandon Country Park parkrun! As a transgender parkrunner, Kate tells us about her transition to becoming the person she wanted to be, and the role parkrun’s inclusive environment has played in her ongoing journey...

https://blog.parkrun.com/uk/2020/02/12/where-i-know-im-always-welcome

Chersfrozenface · 24/05/2023 11:36

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:29

Exactly this, it isnt a race however much you want it to be.
If you feel the need to race against others, maybe youd be better off joining an actual race.
Park run is an inclusive to all, whether you're walking round with a pram, or mix walking and jogging (my personal preference, when I actually go that is 😁) jog slowly round, or race round it.
Making out that it's a race when it's nothing of the sort I'd have thought would actually deter some thinking about joining

Then, once again, stop publishing results.

Chersfrozenface · 24/05/2023 11:39

And delete historical records.

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:39

Frabbits · 24/05/2023 11:34

If it truly isn't a race then Parkrun should stop publishing records then, shouldn't they?

Truth is, for some people it absolutely is a race, for others it is not. It can be both things.

If it truly isn't a race then Parkrun should stop publishing records then, shouldn't they?
There's no men and women's category when there, you just run, walk, whatever, and all set off together.
An hour or so after the race after the times have been processed they upload the scores so you can check yours, see if you've beaten your personal best or whatever.
Maybe they should do away with mentioning sex at all, just have all the people running in one list, that way everybody happy. Well, youd think so anyway

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:41

Chersfrozenface · 24/05/2023 11:36

Then, once again, stop publishing results.

How are you supposed to check your time if they don't publish your result?

Brefugee · 24/05/2023 11:42

MN is full of shorthand. I can't say I love 'cis', but it's quicker than writing 'women who were assigned a sex of female at birth' and no less stupid than DH as shorthand for husband.

you could just write woman which is shorter than "cis-woman"?

There's no concept of competing at parkrun. Frankly, I find it astonishing you keep treating it as a race. It's not.

so why do they publish times and have records and categories? Surely if it is just a "fun thing to do" it should just let people participate and have zero records and categories?

I really like their idea of having closed runs in prisons, that is something i didn't know and i applaud it.

MrsJamin · 24/05/2023 11:44

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:41

How are you supposed to check your time if they don't publish your result?

Spot the person who's never done a parkrun. You get a text! Doesn't have to be public AT ALL!

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:45

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 24/05/2023 10:17

He can run but not have the time recorded. Just don't get the barcode scanned or take a number at the end. Or Parkrun could have a Trans category.

Or Parkrun could have a Trans category.
Wow, talk about othering.
Maybe put a marker on their scores, or somewhere saying they're trans too?
🙄

Fizbosshoes · 24/05/2023 11:45

There's no men and women's category when there, you just run, walk, whatever, and all set off together.

...but essentially that is like a race. If you do a local 10k they don't start men and women separately, everyone starts together and results sorted and published at the end

ImNotAsThinkAsYouDrunkIAm · 24/05/2023 11:46

Frabbits · 24/05/2023 11:24

I would suggest that removing female category records from people who are known to be men is a pretty simple first step.

How do you know they are men? Because someone said they were? Who’s checking, and how?
Are they also going to start removing category records where someone was alleged to have cut a corner? Or where the funnel got messed up? Because that’s not fair either, right?

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:48

MrsJamin · 24/05/2023 11:44

Spot the person who's never done a parkrun. You get a text! Doesn't have to be public AT ALL!

You get a text?! Yours must be more fancier than ours, as we don't!
Unless it's a new addition as admittedly I haven't been for a while and could have started them up for all I know but you definitely don't get texts.
Or didnt anyway, or maybe it varies on area, who knows

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:49

Who’s checking, and how?
That's just it isnt it.

RichardBarrister · 24/05/2023 11:51

ImNotAsThinkAsYouDrunkIAm · 24/05/2023 11:02

Just men who attempt murder over the title? What about men who attempt murder in general? Or murderers fully stop? Or rapists?
How is Parkrun going to tell whether a woman is a woman, or a trans woman? Are they relying on reports? Do they have to verify those reports? How are they verifying them? Birth certificates? GRC? Remember this is an event run by volunteers.

They can start by not openly condoning men registering as female by asking for birth as rather than gender identity or gender.

You’re not suggesting that trans people would lie about their birth sex are you? Everyone knows what sex they were born.

andifeelfine · 24/05/2023 11:51

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:48

You get a text?! Yours must be more fancier than ours, as we don't!
Unless it's a new addition as admittedly I haven't been for a while and could have started them up for all I know but you definitely don't get texts.
Or didnt anyway, or maybe it varies on area, who knows

If you want to receive your results by text, you can opt into that. It's a personal preference controlled via your individual parkrun profile.

Chersfrozenface · 24/05/2023 11:53

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:41

How are you supposed to check your time if they don't publish your result?

You could use your own stopwatch.

Decathlon sells a specific running stopwatch on a wristband for £13.99.

ImNotAsThinkAsYouDrunkIAm · 24/05/2023 11:53

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:48

You get a text?! Yours must be more fancier than ours, as we don't!
Unless it's a new addition as admittedly I haven't been for a while and could have started them up for all I know but you definitely don't get texts.
Or didnt anyway, or maybe it varies on area, who knows

I’m not super keen on the concept of publishing results anyway, given Parkrun is not supposed to be a race.

But you’ll never please everyone. There’s no feasible way for Parkrun to check people’s sex ,or age, or anything else. If you rely on reports that opens up a huge can of worms. So people either accept that Parkrun results are not 100% accurate- they aren’t 100% accurately timed, sometimes people will self identify as a man or a woman, or misrepresent their age etc - or they stop publishing the results altogether. But then people who like the results won’t be happy.

kettlebellchips · 24/05/2023 11:54

andifeelfine · 24/05/2023 11:03

It does matter because you're all complaining about a fun run, where the times are often invented. It's not a race. It's not accurate.

I would understand some of the comments on this thread if they were aimed at an actual race where the timing was accurate and carried out by paid staff. With actual races, there is enough money involved to investigate any allegations of misconduct with record holders. With actual races, there is a concept of winning against other people. With actual races, the results do matter because they can be used as qualifying times for other races.

You're all complaining about a nice social activity run by grassroots volunteers (unpaid) on behalf of a charity that aims to get everyone outside doing some exercise at their own pace.

If it wasn't for parkrun, I would never do any exercise ever. Like many women who aren't particularly sporty, the UK school system robbed me of my confidence to exercise and didn't give me any opportunities to improve. parkrun has helped me see that I can compete against myself, and it's OK to be shit at sport but still have a go. I'm allowed to bring my full self to parkrun. I don't wear makeup or heels or attempt to be some ideal woman I see in the media. I just turn up as an unairbrushed, lumpy me, in all of my natural averageness. And I don't feel judged.

It's not intended to be serious. It's intended to be social, inclusive and welcoming. A trans person faces all kinds of struggles Monday to Friday - just read the attitudes on this thread - parkrun gives them an opportunity to turn up on Saturday morning as the person they feel they are, and to just run, walk, jog or volunteer. No masking, no pretending, just being themselves.

That's not just a gift reserved for trans people either.

We get people who are seriously ill and are too slow to participate in any other kind of sporting activity. They're welcomed at parkrun and supported by the community to do the whole course at their own pace or, if they're not up to it, what part of the course they can manage that day.

We get wheelchair users who can face accessibility challenges elsewhere.

We get women running in hijabs who feel out of place elsewhere.

We get DV victims rebuilding their lives and making links to new communities under a new name.

It's for everyone. And a lot of the groups that fall into everyone are female.

Honestly, those of you coming after parkrun are not seeing the bigger picture of what parkrun does for women. It would be extremely harmful to take down this organisation in your witchhunt.

Go fight your debate in competitive sport. Don't target a charity enriching the lives of women - and everyone else.

👏Wonderful post 👏

RichardBarrister · 24/05/2023 11:54

ImNotAsThinkAsYouDrunkIAm · 24/05/2023 11:46

How do you know they are men? Because someone said they were? Who’s checking, and how?
Are they also going to start removing category records where someone was alleged to have cut a corner? Or where the funnel got messed up? Because that’s not fair either, right?

Interestingly, most people (and dogs, babies and some horses) can tell what sex someone is at a glance. This has worked effectively for many years alongside people knowing what sex they were born and having a degree of personal integrity meaning they don’t pretend to be something they are not.

It’s only since the recent mass promotion of gender ideology that grown adults are now claiming they can’t look at someone and immediately tell what sex they are with a 99-100% degree of accuracy.

DdraigGoch · 24/05/2023 11:57

andifeelfine · 24/05/2023 01:06

@lifeturnsonadime @literalviolence There's no concept of competing at parkrun. Frankly, I find it astonishing you keep treating it as a race. It's not.

I agree that the issue of how to treat cis-women and transwomen at competitive races is a complex one where debate is needed and quite possibly extra categories. But parkrun is not a competitive race.

FFS, quite a lot of parkrun times are made up. There's a reason why you can't use a parkrun time as a qualifying time for anything. Given how old this course record was, it would have been recorded using a manual stopwatch by a volunteer who quite possibly only had 2 minutes of training in how to use it.

You tend to get certified timekeepers at real races - people who have done special courses in that sort of thing. Not random volunteers who might have never done timekeeping before.

I checked her time, btw. There are faster cis-women in the parkrun world. Maybe one of them will visit and set a new female record organically. That would certainly be the easiest way to put an end to this noise...

If there is no concept of competing then why are course records even published?

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 24/05/2023 11:59

Naunet · 24/05/2023 07:53

and demand to inspect their genitalia

Yes dear because that’s the only way we can tell someone’s sex isn’t it? I mean maybe you’re only 12 and don’t remember a time before this utter bullshit started, but we all managed just fine. How do you think men managed to stop women from having the vote if they couldn’t tell who the women were? Please do explain that one, I’d love to know.

A picture is worth a thousand words.

sheldonia · 24/05/2023 12:02

here's no concept of competing at parkrun. Frankly, I find it astonishing you keep treating it as a race. It's not.

Astonishing that they update the record constantly to show who does it fastest.....almost like a race?

AuContraire · 24/05/2023 12:03

andifeelfine · 24/05/2023 11:09

No, we're saying it's inappropriate to apply race standards to events that are not and have never pretended to be races.

We're not asking them to apply "race standards". We're asking them to have a policy which says that people must enter their sex, rather than their gender identity, in the same way they ask people to give their date of birth, not the age they would like to be.

Have a clear policy. That's easy to do, and free. And doesn't require volunteers to do anything.

sheldonia · 24/05/2023 12:04

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 24/05/2023 11:45

Or Parkrun could have a Trans category.
Wow, talk about othering.
Maybe put a marker on their scores, or somewhere saying they're trans too?
🙄

Othering? What does that even mean? Is having a mens category othering men?

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