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Inheritance one

34 replies

Iinn · 22/05/2023 14:53

Name changed, posting for traffic.

So the history is A + B are getting married, A has 3 school age children (A1, A2, A3), B has two adult children (B1 and B2)
B moves in with A and A children into A house.
Fast forward 10 years A + B are getting divorce.
In meantime
B1 got 2 bed flat after B moved to A and still lives there
B2 bought own 1 bed flat and is paying mortgage
A1 got 2 bed flat from A
A2 got 1 bed flat from A
A3 got 5% towards the house deposit and is paying mortgage

Now A wants to sell the house which A owns plus A children have shares in it.
Now B is saying B wants a share of the house which legally B doesnt have but lived in the house 10years and also wants something for B children.

The split of flats is already not equal before A + B were even getting divorce.

How would you share it?
This is not UK.

OP posts:
Hankunamatata · 22/05/2023 19:25

So in you country A house isn't regarded as a marriage asset?

wistfullyfocused · 22/05/2023 19:27

Hang on, who died?

MinervaSaidThar · 22/05/2023 19:33

Are A and B getting married or divorced? I’m so confused 🤣

Marmight · 22/05/2023 19:45

I'd be fucked off if i was A3 and only got a 5% deposit while my siblings got a flat each 😳

Iinn · 22/05/2023 20:36

jay55 · 22/05/2023 16:31

Was the flat actually signed over or does B still own it and just let their adult child live there?

B still legally owns it

OP posts:
Iinn · 22/05/2023 20:38

Marmight · 22/05/2023 19:45

I'd be fucked off if i was A3 and only got a 5% deposit while my siblings got a flat each 😳

I mean yeah it is bit messed up.

OP posts:
Northernlurker · 22/05/2023 20:52

So B could move back to their flat?
I think a take out what you bought in approach is best here. They can both be housed.

Daisypain · 22/05/2023 20:58

Marmight · 22/05/2023 19:45

I'd be fucked off if i was A3 and only got a 5% deposit while my siblings got a flat each 😳

What about B2? B1 gets given B’s ol flat but B2 had to fund their own?

OP did B get any money for the flat from B1? Did B sign the flat over entirely to B1?
because that would decide if B’s flat (now lived in by B1) counts as a marital asset.

Can see why B feels a bit homeless

justasmalltownmum · 22/05/2023 21:02

B gets diddly squat.

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