This is a post from facebook 2 cam 2 fess
"#Camfession35892
why are cambridge students not allowed to be stressed out and express it? since i came here i cant tell my family and friends back home that i’m stressed and drowning in work without them saying ‘but you’re at cambridge you’re so lucky!’ or ‘you chose to go there, what did you expect?’ like yes i’m very well aware of that but why does that mean i’m not meant to complain or express that i’m struggling? yes i chose to go here, i’m super lucky and grateful to be here. but this place is absolutely mental and insane and does a number on all of us. its enough that this university treats us like machines, but for your own family to expect that level of never-ending productivity and resilience from you is so disheartening, especially when they know what it took for you to get here"
I've posted it here for all the Various parents, as it makes good points about university.