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To think thicker sanitary pads should still be sold?

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Homeymum2 · 21/05/2023 08:10

DD, 13 is having her first period and the new "technology" leaves only very thin pads to be had. Even if they really do hold as much as the old ones, psychologically it is worrying.

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Achwheesht · 21/05/2023 08:11

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jxhzhdbfj · 21/05/2023 08:12

The cheaper ones are usually thicker

User5641 · 21/05/2023 08:13

Look at using period pants. Best thing ever for heavier periods. They are pricy but worth it. 😃

ChildcarePanic · 21/05/2023 08:14

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Greendoorsaremyfavourite · 21/05/2023 08:19

I think you're worrying about nothing. If she has a heavier flow, just teach her to change them regularly or get a pad that suits. The night time pads have more coverage without being like a nappy. Or, like someone else has suggested, try the period underwear.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 21/05/2023 08:25

I think in the nicest possible way that this is a you problem. you don't feel completely protected by a thinner sanitary towel. I've never associated thicker with more absorbent.

ilovesooty · 21/05/2023 08:25

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Report it then.

crumpet · 21/05/2023 08:28

Who is worried about it? You or her? If her, then your job is to help her understand how they work, the options available (tampons, different brands etc), and how regularly to change and how to dispose of them, to have spares to hand.

crumpet · 21/05/2023 08:29

If you, then it’s your job not to transmit the worries to her - and instead to help her feel confident

timetorefresh · 21/05/2023 08:29

Get her period pants. There's no reason for kids to be struggling with pads now

ChildcarePanic · 21/05/2023 08:29

ilovesooty · 21/05/2023 08:25

Report it then.

Well I could be wrong I'm just always skeptical when bizarre questions get asked about periods!

Boomboom22 · 21/05/2023 08:30

Def no. They are better now. Get period pants though.

MarriedMama23 · 21/05/2023 08:31

You can still get the thick kotex pads. Try your local pharmacy, that's where I get mine.

MarriedMama23 · 21/05/2023 08:31

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Grow up.

gogohmm · 21/05/2023 08:31

Tesco still sells them

Divorcedalongtime · 21/05/2023 08:32

Period pants are superior, my daughter always had a spare pair (sometimes two) in her school bag but it was usually fine with just the ones she was wearing.

VainAbigail · 21/05/2023 08:32

Kotex do night pads (in the black packaging) which are thicker than most. It depends where you’re looking 🤷🏼‍♀️

SunnySaturdayMorning · 21/05/2023 08:33

What? Why are you forcing your own insane issues onto your vulnerable daughter?

PaddingtonTheAngelofDeath · 21/05/2023 08:35

MarriedMama23 · 21/05/2023 08:31

Grow up.

It is a reasonable to question the intention of a poster when they want to talk about children and periods.

ArdeteiMasazxu · 21/05/2023 08:35

If it's a psychological reason, do some experiments. It will be a fun educational activity for a sunday afternoon. Buy 3 different designs of pad (including a reusable if you can afford it) and get some water with food colouring in it. Use a shot glass or measuring spoon to dole out equal quantities of liquid into each one, wait a few seconds then check for leakage, then repeat over and over adding another small quantity each time and see what amount each one absorbs before it starts leaking.

MarriedMama23 · 21/05/2023 08:36

PaddingtonTheAngelofDeath · 21/05/2023 08:35

It is a reasonable to question the intention of a poster when they want to talk about children and periods.

And you know full well troll hunting is not allowed. Report it if you think something is fishy. Kids have periods? Why is that so odd?

Homeymum2 · 21/05/2023 08:36

So, SHE has asked for something thicker. The overnight ones are thicker but also excessively long... period pants seem ok for at home but who wants to change their entire pants at school? You would have to take off your trousers in the stall.

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GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 21/05/2023 08:36

Your DD will have never seen the thick pads that you're talking about, presumably?

So why would she feel ordinary ones are too thin? They're just pads.

cocksstrideintheevening · 21/05/2023 08:37

Homeymum2 · 21/05/2023 08:36

So, SHE has asked for something thicker. The overnight ones are thicker but also excessively long... period pants seem ok for at home but who wants to change their entire pants at school? You would have to take off your trousers in the stall.

She wouldn't need to change the pants at school

Noicant · 21/05/2023 08:37

It depends really, I used to flood when I was a teen, the biggest thin pad would be drenched very quickly plus clots. The cheaper ones are thicker. I’d recommend a tampon plus sanitary towel, the thinner ones will be more comfortable.