Dd12 keep saying she doesn’t want to see her dad or stay over it’s a mix of not really enjoying feeling like an outsider there and also feeling left out of events with her friends
aibu to get her to communicate this with her dad? In the past iv done it abs I think he thinks I’m alienating her despite the fact that I do most the running and really try. He won’t bend to her needs and allow her to see her friends at his as it would mean him driving and probably not drinking. She’s starting to hate it there and gets annoyed and anxious about it. It genuinely ruins the weekends where she has to go and she’s always saying she feels unwell