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Being induced tomorrow, baby has stopped growing

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elm26 · 16/05/2023 21:49

Posting for traffic, I don't know if I need a handhold, to hear others stories of similar or just to offload my anxiety.

38 weeks and 2 days, went for a growth scan today and to my shock, they've asked me to go home and get stuff ready and be back in for 10am tomorrow for induction.

Reason for scans throughout is history of 13 miscarriages, covid in pregnancy and a previous low lying placenta (had moved up at 36 week scan).

Baby hasn't grown much if at all since 2 weeks ago, they sent me up to ward for monitoring and baby's movements and heart rate are fine, my fluid is fine but my placenta has more or less stopped working. Blood flow and oxygen okay.

I was due to be induced on due date, thought I'd have some time to prepare myself and relax but I'm in a tizz now. We've got everything and babies bag and mine is ready to go but I feel so rushed and unprepared now 😢

I'm worried about about her, they've put her estimated weight at 6lb but advised me to grab some tiny baby clothes if I hadn't already so we made a last minute trip to Asda tonight for those, just bought 8 vests and 8 babygrows in case she's bigger than expected.

They will be using the rods and see how I get on but I'm so scared all of a sudden.

Any words or wisdom or advice? Thank you x

OP posts:
uncomfortablydumb53 · 22/05/2023 23:10

Huge congratulations.
She is absolutely beautiful with clear skin and defined features
Mine were all red and wrinkly!
Enjoy every precious moment and rest up and take things gently

Corilee2806 · 22/05/2023 23:11

Ah she’s perfect! Huge congratulations! You’re an absolute hero. Have been thinking of you all day and checking back for updates - takes me back to my little 5lb bundles! So glad you finally got through it - now enjoy all those snuggles x

Blort · 22/05/2023 23:11

Ahhhhhhh what a beauty!! You lucky mum. Congrats Flowers

SundaynightattheLondon · 22/05/2023 23:13

Many congratulations upon the birth of your beautiful daughter. My goodness, you’ve been through this,

annlee3817 · 22/05/2023 23:13

Congratulations OP, she's beautiful

IWishIWasABaller · 22/05/2023 23:14

Wow she is absolutely beautiful ❤️ Congratulations and well done enjoy your beautiful little baby girl

Purplebunnie · 22/05/2023 23:16

She's absolutely gorgeous! Congratulations to you all. x

IamaBluebird · 22/05/2023 23:16

Congratulations, such a gorgeous baby and beautiful name too.

Moonchild79 · 22/05/2023 23:28

Amazing news. Thank you for the update 🌸
Welcome to the world Tilly.

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 22/05/2023 23:29

Wow, she's beautiful, and you've done so amazingly well OP. Congratulations, enjoy her!

summerpoolandsun · 22/05/2023 23:36

She is so beautiful, congratulations OP 🥰

chellie2021 · 22/05/2023 23:51

She’s gorgeous, congratulations.. You’d quite the labour! Hope you and baby are doing amazing 💜

EasyPeelersAreNotSatsumas · 22/05/2023 23:55

Congratulations to you all. She's simply perfect.
She's also been born on the birthday of one the sweetest, kindest, cleverest ladies I know.

thaegumathteth · 23/05/2023 00:06

Beautiful baby and beautiful name! Well done! The end of my second labour was very similar so I know it's a bit of shock to the system!

Very envious of all the scrunchy newborn cuddles you're going to be getting and all the amazing times ahead of you!

Trinity65 · 23/05/2023 00:11

elm26 · 22/05/2023 23:00

Tilly Isabella born at 02:16 22/05/23 weighing a dinky 5lb 15oz 🩷 we are so in love.

2 failed epidurals, kept turning the hormone drip up. Went from 4cm to 10cm in 9 minutes and nobody believed me she was coming. I was screaming trying to get off the bed crying begging my DH to get them to put me down as I couldn’t bare it anymore. Suddenly alarms went off and anaesthist, consultant and midwives were all back in the room shouting at somebody to get me back on the bed properly so I could push. I think I went into shock. Was really traumatic to be honest, she was also back to back and they couldn't turn her. She's so worth it all but I won't be doing it again in a hurry!

Thanks so much everyone xxx

She is absolutely beautiful, OP.

Congratulations

She will thrive. My firstborn was 5lb 15oz ... now a 32 year old.

Mamai90 · 23/05/2023 00:14

Congratulations OP! She's absolutely beautiful.

I feel a kind of affinity to you as our journeys were similar and I was on your first thread. I was you 18 months ago. Enjoy every precious minute.

Cakeandcookies · 23/05/2023 00:18

She is just beautiful 😍 ❤ congratulations @elm26 to you and your hubby and well done! Now lots of rest and baby cuddles. Time to enjoy this next chapter. Hugs to you all xxx

VintageBlossomHill · 23/05/2023 00:39

I had my twins at 36 weeks 2 days as they had been monitored daily for a couple of weeks and my small twin had little growth. He was 4 lb 11 and very fine when born, tiny but healthy. He was home the 2nd day after birth and he was the most pleasant and easy baby to look after - his twin was 2lb bigger and hard work! He’s now 7 a little bit slight for his age but so are many of his classmates who were single babies with no health issues. He’s whipsmart, loves school, funny as hell and sportsmad. I wish you the best of luck xx

Floralnomad · 23/05/2023 01:01

Congratulations to you and your husband @elm26 , she really is a beautiful baby 💐

JFDIYOLO · 23/05/2023 01:08

Congratulations!

🤗💐🤗💐🤗💐🤗💐🤗💐🤗💐🤗💐

Ohdofuckofdear · 23/05/2023 01:20

Wow you really went through it bless you but well done and Congratulations she is absolutely gorgeous, she's been born on the day I was born,Mays a lovely month to have your birthday in I've been very lucky I don't think it's ever rained on my birthday and I hope all of your DD's future birthdays are full of sunshine too.

Haywirecity · 23/05/2023 01:21

Ahhh. Welcome to the world, Isabella. 🥰
Look at those fingers. She's going to be a piano player for sure. She's absolutely gorgeous. Well done.

Threeboysadogandacat · 23/05/2023 01:21

Congratulations on the safe arrival of Tilly Isabella 💐

She has pianists fingers 🎼

recyclemeagain · 23/05/2023 01:26

She is absolutely beautiful OP.
My first baby was an induction due to him stopping growing so I remember that worry.
Almost identical birth story too except he ended up a general anaesthetic cesarean (meaning crash section) due to heart rate.
He was the exact same birth weight as your little one and you're right, it's such a teeny size 😍
He didn't put on weight easily at all and remained a very tiny baby his entire first 18 months, constantly mistaken for a newborn until about 6 months old.
But he's now a big happy 12 year old. He's still a skinnymalink but a very healthy one! Away on his first residential with school and even though I know he's fine, I still picture my tiny 5lb 15oz baby 🥰
Enjoy your gorgeous wee girl and wishing you and your family every happiness. Congratulations on your perfect little sunbeam ☀️

VintageBlossomHill · 23/05/2023 01:42

Oh my goodness Isabella is beautiful. Congratulations. Xx