Just saw another S&B post and I'm concerned.

[NewAnon]

The post was "is this suitable for a wedding" (classic), but one of the reasons the dress was unsuitable was that it was too 'sparkly'.

I've bought a sparkly outfit to wear as a guest for a wedding, and now I've got The Fear that it's too much.

It's this top, with a similar colour (blush/gold) midi length gauze skirt (ballerina style). And I plan to wear it with a box navy jacket for the service (and navy suede shoes): https://www.phase-eight.com/product/dhara-sequin-blouse-502166453.html#navAjax=true&imageType=model&is=true&sz=60&start=60&q=sequin&isSecondPage=false&pid=502166453&pos=69

The bride will be wearing Ivory, and the bridesmaids are in terracotta. Have I misjudged it?

Personally I think a guest wearing sequins is a bit try too hard but that’s a preference thing rather than etiquette

However bigger issue is that I can’t see the top and the Reiss skirt going well together from the links you have uploaded. And adding a navy jacket seems an odd choice but I may be wrong and in real life it all goes together

Jacket sounds like an odd choice for the skirt /top combo & let’s face it, it’s coming off after the service (the jacket that is 😉). Then it’s going to look too bridal party…

I think it sounds fine but wonder if the navy will look a bit harsh. I think you’d want something more neutral in terms of colour.

Love the idea of someone wearing sequins liberally though!

I don't think a boxy navy blazer will work with a tulle skirt of any colour. Do you have navy trousers (ideally palazzos) to match the blazer? With flats and a small bag to match the top or the trousers.

Also I reckon jacket and trousers in burgundy or aubergine would go better with the top. There's no getting around the Royal Navy/officewear/school uniform feel of a navy blue blazer.

Was at an evening do recently and it was sparkle central. One woman had a full on dress covered in sequins. Lots of sparkly sandals and headbands. These were day guests.

Sparkles are not just for Christmas.
Saw recently a wedding photo of a relative from the sixties. The MOTB who would have been only 59 was dressed like the Queen Mother in her nineties. We have come a long way.

The thing about sequins is that they are plastic and if it is a nice sunny day (and I think it's polite to assume it will be and everyone just needs to act surprised if it's bucketing down), you are going to be hot and uncomfortable in a long sleeved sequin top. Even if the weather is not that nice you'll be regretting it by the time the dancing starts.

want the truth??(am shit at sugar coat)i voiced my(no/dont)opinion on that. youve poosted a blouse.bout 3inches shorter than the dress.....it WASNT the sparkles that was problem.not really.....more the fannie exposure\dressed for a club \tho no age range//relevance to bride -groom supplied.it was...too short n not in line with even 2023 lush version of conformity. TRUTH is...wear what makes you happy...THE BRIDE iis the dress wearer to be noticed...IF you want talkt about-do it with class.i like blouse/tutu skirt require you be small/10 tops...probli.said it

I'm a fan of a daytime sequin. It's got to be worn right though - the skirt idea is a bit flouncy for me.

The model in the top (it's a gorgeous top btw) is styled well - plain pants and very simple, slick hair.

Bouffy hair or flouncy anything, and the sequins might be a bit much. I'd wear the top, but rethink the bottom half.

I have no taste but can say that as a bride it wouldn't have bothered or upset me.

If you're planning to wear the boxy navy jacket could you wear a smart pair of navy trousers with the sparkly top (or would be breaking other rules?)

not going to google too long but so it was a bit like this https://www.johnlewis.com/gina-bacconi-marigot-sequin-tank-top-and-cascade-jersey-jacket-set-dark-navy/p109238227

I love that top and that skirt. I don't know for a daytime wedding though. Could you wear a different top for the ceremony and then put on your sparkles for the evening do?

I was googling what are the trends of 2023 the other day @NewAnon , and as you presumably know, pastel sequins and sheer stuff are very fashionable.

So while it might seem a bit odd to the less trendy amongst us, it's the current 'look.'

I think it will look a bit odd with navy smart stuff, like you wanted to wear a fashion look but then felt you should wear something more classic/smart as well.
Like, you weren't sure about outfit A so are trying to hide/tone it down a bit.

I think you could pull off outfit A without hiding it under different-looking stuff.

But what do I know, you sound like you know what you're doing with clothes/fashion.

I love the look. I think the navy blazer will work well. Good contrast. Formalise the outfit without taking away from the theatre of tulle.

I love the skirt. Not sure if the top goes ?

It’s fine. Not bridal. I wear sequins all year round. Some people are too precious.

On MN there is always someone offended by a wedding guest's choice of outfit for some reason. I love the sound of your outfit. It'll look suitably celebratory and you won't look like one of the bridal party.

I like that suggestion!
I would pair this top with a less bridal party-like skirt or trousers.

The current outfit: It just doesn't seem p

*particularly daytime, summer wedding appropriate.

It is a nice outfit but I probably wouldn't wear it for that occasion.

PLEASE wear this outfit if you look and feel good in it. There are no rules to follow as long as an outfit suits you.
An up-staging of the bride via a sartorial choice has never happened and you won't be the one to do it either.
Feel good and have fun!

I think it sounds like a lovely outfit and very suitable!

This ^
The jacket the top and the skirt are 3 different styles, I wouldn’t be wearing them together. And yes, the skirt and top will look bridal party once the jacket is removed.

Love this look! I think it will look fab. I have a similar skirt and would definitely wear it to a wedding.

I’ve never heard of a bride giving out the colours of the bridesmaid dresses. My bridesmaids wore taupe, I couldn’t have cared less if any guests wore that colour. Think it’s a great outfit OP, particularly with the blazer for daytime.

I think it’s fine I’d have no issues with someone wearing that to my wedding! Top looks gorgeous. You could easily remove any feeling of bridal if you wore a different skirt or even nice trousers. I think it’s the shape or fabric of the skirt which hints at bride but I think it’s ok and love the colour xo

I think it will look fine! Sparkles can be for any time.