I work every Friday and Saturday night, and DH works Monday to Friday. I work a day during the week but I am mainly at home during the week looking after our daughter, our pets and the house. I’m a carer and took a person I look after to a gig last night and didn’t get home until after 2 o’clock in the morning. I’d been going since 7.30am non stop taking DD to her morning group, walked dog, tidied house then off to work. I would usually work 10pm-8am, and will be doing that shift tonight. My husband took our daughter this morning as I was tired due to the late night, and I didn’t get up until 10.30am. We had a birthday party to go to at noon so upon waking I asked him to walk the dog while I watched our daughter and got ready, and he said I was taking the piss still being in my dressing gown. He says he’s tired which I appreciate but he chooses to stay up really late playing his Xbox. I know that’s his free time to relax but find it kind of jarring when he’s biting my head off for being tired.