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Aibu about my toxic Work place?

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123hello123 · 13/05/2023 13:20

Aibu to not want to go back to my work when ...

  • I told 2 work colleagues my dad is seriously ill, then both of them say nothing and both leave the room together shortly afterwards
  • they sit and whisper in staff room and then don't answer when I ask if everything's OK
  • I'm expected to know things without being told what's happening
  • work colleagues meet up outside work and then talk about it in front of me, I'm the only one not invited
  • they privately message each other to go into work to sort out stuff and then ask why I wasn't there?
  • during break, they make each other tea and leave an empty kettle for me
  • they tag each other in things on fb and not me
  • I raise my feelings about this and other stuff to management and nothing is done
  • 2 years later management start to address some of these and frequently draw everyone's attention to me raising these concerns!!!!

Etc etc

It's a small staff of 6 max
I often feel confused, anxious, and very tearful in work and cry outside work
Currently off with stress
This is definitely a toxic work environment for me isn't it? Staff are very clicky together
I need to leave don't I?

OP posts:
Blancmangemouse · 13/05/2023 14:17

I’m surprised you need to ask. Sounds horrible. You have little to lose by leaving for greener and friendlier pastures. Happy job hunting!

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