Actually I was talking about the situation today. In my day1980s and 90s in my school there was minimal use of sets. They weren’t needed, all lessons suited all children, those who struggled most had additional help during lunch/breaks from teachers.
Whilst you might have been motivated to stay out of the bottom and move towards the top. A child put in the bottom group, effectively being told they’re not as good as others is having the same message pushed on them from many angles.
There is just no need for sets, teachers can be adaptable within classes. As I said, I have been top of the class and towards the bottom, at no point was I ever of the opinion someone who needed additional help holding me back, it taught me patience and compassion. When I was bottom, the more able kids were able to model better understanding and ways of thinking.
Schools are about more than academic achievement, esp where there are deprived pupils.
it’s great that you are looking out for that girl, but all children need looking after, whether they behave poorly or not, whether they are academic or not. There should be no need to move between groups. Children should not live in fear of falling down a group, they should feel safe to reach towards success and deal with inevitable failures that come with growth, they should not somehow feel they are punished for those failures. School should be a safe environment for exploration. I get that resources limit a schools ability, but none of what I suggest means more resources, it’s adapting what you already have.
if you thought you would feel “ worthless” being around kids smarter than you, surely that is an argument against sets. In life you will mix with people who are smarter and those who aren’t as smart. You will have to work amongst a mixture of abilities. Surely school should prepare you for that? Why would you feel worthless because someone is brighter. What on earth would make you feel that way. It’s another iteration of divide and conquer.
it’s interesting how inflexible your views are on this, how you take the criticism of a system and your defence of it as a personal attack.