I split with my partner of 11 years after a very rough patch - I started a relationship with someone else. It was really only dates and the odd night away, for around 7 months.
Me and my ex decided to give it another go, we have young children etc.
The other guy even though I've told him I'm living back with my ex, we're having family days, back together etc - won't get the message. I like him as a friend and enjoyed his company so didn't want to hurt or cut him out altogether but he's still messaging saying how he misses and loves me.
What should I do?