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Well, I hated the coronation…

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TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 06:02

I can see I am in the minority on here but I found yesterday to be distasteful on a gigantic scale. To watch the most privileged people travel in gold coaches & be decorated with diamonds and gold that is priceless in the face of millions of people struggling to eat/heat their homes just feels so wrong.

Our primary school has just opened a food bank. There are kids & families in crisis- children coming into school hungry & smelly as families can’t afford to wash clothes (I am not joking) - living in Dickensian conditions. Some of the teaching staff use the foodbank.

Yesterday was a display of obscene wealth. The royals didn’t even pay for it- we did. How can we find money for that absolute nonsense yet we can’t find money for large swathes of the population to feed themselves.

While Charles was sitting there in his gold costume holding these priceless items, plenty of families weren’t eating. It made me really angry.

I am tired of all the arguments for a royal family- how somehow these displays are quaint. Yesterday was an obscene display of wealth, inherited privilege and everything that’s wrong with this country. Seems a conversation about the royals is long overdue.

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Mirabai · 07/05/2023 09:13

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 09:06

@spottybug @Aslanplustwo the problem is - if I talk about my circumstances I will either get accused of being jealous of others wealth or of being a hypocrite. I come from a working class background, was first in my family to go to Uni and I don’t have loads of inherited wealth. But I have a good life myself.

That certainly doesn’t mean I am ‘jealous’ of the royals wealth etc.

The royals’ wealth is irrelevant - if they’d paid for it themselves it would have been obscene but at least it wouldn’t have cost the taxpayers.

But we paid for it. Their wealth doesn’t even come into it.

AP5Diva · 07/05/2023 09:13

Tiredmum100 · 07/05/2023 09:09

Boris did it for me. Twat.

urgh. I get so angry when I see them too. Did you see the article about the £12k party Liz and friends charged to expenses? The one where her party stole a bunch of stuff from the hotel (£150 bathrobes, etc) and the housekeeping staff reported “white powder”? Not saying Liz Truss had a cocaine fuelled party involving guests naked in hotel bathrobes that she charged to expenses (so we taxpayers paid for it), but these are the images that come to mind (paraphrasing the journalist here).

AP5Diva · 07/05/2023 09:14

Mirabai · 07/05/2023 09:13

The royals’ wealth is irrelevant - if they’d paid for it themselves it would have been obscene but at least it wouldn’t have cost the taxpayers.

But we paid for it. Their wealth doesn’t even come into it.

It didn’t cost us taxpayers a penny. In fact the Government made a minimum of £800m on it.

msisfine · 07/05/2023 09:15

Hotfootgoose · 07/05/2023 06:19

I know lots of families are struggling, but how much does it cost to wash clothes? People used to do this in a river years ago, so I doubt s blob of soap is the problem here.

Fucking hell

Dibblydoodahdah · 07/05/2023 09:15

@TheColourofspring you haven’t explained how getting rid of the Royal family is going to get rid of poverty and inequality. And, as others have pointed out, there are countries with Royal families that are far more equal than the Republics you are obsessed with.

The second you told me to “f* off”, you showed exactly what kind of a person you are.

Ladybowes · 07/05/2023 09:16

AP5Diva · 07/05/2023 09:08

The meritocracy myth isn’t true anywhere in the world. Nowhere can you succeed by working hard alone. And the countries with the highest inequality, are the ones with elected Heads of State. So if you are going to be evidence based in thinking an elected Head of State would move us to lower inequality, the evidence doesn’t support your opinion at all. It even sort of shows the opposite would happen as all our former colonies have higher inequality than the U.K.

Absolutely agree - but having a Royal family that is hereditary certainly does not help and just because other countries have high inequalities and heads of state does not necessary mean that would happen here. We are a different country with a different history - so comparisons to other countries like that aren't really that useful.

We actually don't know what would happen if we removed our Royals? But it is definitely something that I believe needs discussion.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/05/2023 09:16

Blinky21 · 07/05/2023 09:11

Nothing wrong with Charles being Head of State if people have voted for him democratically. If it wasn't for him Andrew would be your king right now and there's nothing you could do about it.

What?

If we didn't have Charles, why would we have Andrew? Are you assuming that Charles just "wasn't born"?

MrsFinkelstein · 07/05/2023 09:17

Becoming a Republic means holding an extra election every 4 or so years.

The US Presidential inauguration costs about 75M. Every 4 years.

We haven't had a Coronation for 70 years. The same places saying it will cost approx 250M, also say it will bring in 1B in revenue.

The cost of living crisis is due to electoral choices by the British electorate over the past 15 years. Stop blaming others - we need to take a long hard look at ourselves.

SueVineer · 07/05/2023 09:17

as many pp have said, the coronation was a fascinating piece of British history and culture. The priceless items are centuries old and nothing to do with modern day poverty.

the money spent on the event was mainly on staff plus opportunity cost to economy of a day off. That’s a nice thing for us as a nation to have ab extra day off. Again any link to poverty is tenuous.

msisfine · 07/05/2023 09:17

CantBeArsedOrAsked · 07/05/2023 06:41

There will always be people richer than you OP. If we didn't have a Royal Family there'd be something else for you to be jealous of.

It's not jealousy, it's outrage

ConstanceReid · 07/05/2023 09:17

I thought it was ill-judged. An over the top display of obscene wealth and unearned privilege.

For someone who is supposed to be modernising the monarchy, Charles has set it right back with that preposterous and meaningless display of indulgence. The congregation actually recited ‘May the king live forever!’ like he is some sort of deity. It’s ludicrous. He has just widened the chasm between his largely disrespected family and the nation.

I sincerely hope when it’s William’s turn that he reads the room. There is absolutely no need to have a coronation, and certainly not on that scale. We are the only country in Europe that still holds coronations. We need to be looking at how the Swedes or Danish do it.

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 09:17

@Dibblydoodahdah hmmm, so accusing me of no critical thinking is fine is it? You know nothing about me.

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Theydontknowthatweknowthattheyknow · 07/05/2023 09:18

I sortof see where you're coming from OP but.... Kid's aren't starving and smelly because of the RF. They haven't had the slightest say about this for centuries. The government decide how wealth is dispersed and the public vote for the government. The RF could give away every penny of their wealth and there's still be people living in poverty. The elephant in the room is that the main reason for this is because a large proportion of our society have decided that this is ok. Overthrowing the RF won't change this it will simply eliminate a huge part of the country's history and heritage. It will also eliminate the revenue that the RF bring into the country's wealth. If you genuinely give a shit about poverty then challenging the RF is a pointless way of tackling it

Puzzledandpissedoff · 07/05/2023 09:19

The very rich will always be among us, OP - though unlike Charles many do much to deserve it - and taking it off them doesn't automatically mean the rest of us would be any better off

It's not the money but the principle of monarchy I object to; nevertheless it was still a historic occasion which I mildly enjoyed watching if only to see the pride of all the ordinary folk who'd put so much effort into it. I don't share their loyalties, but it was still good to see them make such a great job

Malloryhitops · 07/05/2023 09:19

54% 46% YANBU

Gtsr443 · 07/05/2023 09:19

Ladybowes · 07/05/2023 09:05

This may be the case but the idea of a Royal hereditary family goes against the grain - we view ourselves as a society where you work hard and can get anywhere in life. Well this is simply not true and having a Royal family demonstrates that - no matter hard my children work they will never be Royal..

Having a head of state in my opinion would be better and may help us move towards a fairer society. Let's face it you can end up with someone unsuitable by birth as well as elected but the key is what kind of society do you want?

Head of state or a political head of state?

Having an apolitical figure head for the country is eminently preferable to some politician feathering their own nest.

The USA is a perfect example. Trump and Biden again at the next election.
The whole thing driven by extreme wealth.
Macron is loathed but kept in place because the fascists are gaining ground in France. President Putin.... President Modi.....

I'd rather have the powerless Windsors. (Albeit a slimmed down tax paying version.)

Peregrina · 07/05/2023 09:19

Charles has just been crowned in his 70s, I'm sure you would be looking to retire by then. The queen worked pretty much until her death bed.

Which was the Queen's choice. A comparison with the Dutch Royals again - their Monarchs have had no problem abdicating when they know they are getting too old to fulfil their duties as well as they would like, and they know the heir is old enough to take over. But because we had a King abdicate in disgrace getting on for a Century ago, we must never do this. Yet we've even had a Pope abdicate, when he was supposed to have been appointed by God for life.

Dibblydoodahdah · 07/05/2023 09:20

@TheColourofspring well it’s a fact that you haven’t explained the cost benefit of removing the Royal family. You also held up France to be a bastion of equality. I’m comfortable that these points show your lack of critical thinking.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/05/2023 09:21

Ladybowes · 07/05/2023 09:12

I think if you are going to have a Royal family how we do it is amazing.

However, for me it about the kind of society you want to live in - do you want to live in one which is a true meritocracy - where anyone can get to be anything if they work hard enough - then a Royal hereditary family is not the way to go.

There will NEVER be a "true meritocracy" anywhere. People with money will make sure of that.

Do you think our politicians are all there on merit? A few are, but most are there because they went to the "right" school, were shoehorned into the "right" universities, had parents with clout who got them started and funded their campaigns . . . and these are our "elected" politicians. (I put "elected" in inverted commas because were are steered towards a small pool which only has these few (often rotten) fish splashing about in it to make our choices from.)

SueVineer · 07/05/2023 09:21

Blinky21 · 07/05/2023 09:02

Most of the country is happy to look the other way and ignore the tax evasion, shady financial affairs and plundering of state assets, into personal collections, of the RF while the majority of people suffers hardship. But so what if you wait 2 days for an ambulance, god save the king...

What evidence do you have for any of this?

Ladybowes · 07/05/2023 09:21

MrsFinkelstein · 07/05/2023 09:17

Becoming a Republic means holding an extra election every 4 or so years.

The US Presidential inauguration costs about 75M. Every 4 years.

We haven't had a Coronation for 70 years. The same places saying it will cost approx 250M, also say it will bring in 1B in revenue.

The cost of living crisis is due to electoral choices by the British electorate over the past 15 years. Stop blaming others - we need to take a long hard look at ourselves.

That's not necessarily the case the whole system would need a revamp - would take a lot of time I guess and some imagination. However, given how broken our election system is it might just re-engage people who feel politics does not work anymore.

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 09:22

And as I have said, the country is designed structurally to continually uphold inherited wealth and privileges- through the aristocracy too - it’s very far from a meritocracy and all those spouting the ‘we all have the same 24 hours’ tory crap know nothing of how generationally ingrained poverty is too. And I speak from experience of the Welsh valleys too.

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Cakeoutintherain · 07/05/2023 09:22

Before I retired I worked in a political sciences dept and statistics are totally my jam today and not tomorrow.

I have seen this debate and similar debates played out many times over the years. What I’m actually interested in as the original poster has such strong republican beliefs is the original posters background. I’m interested how peoples journeys through life mean they reach the extreme ends of any political debate.

Mirabai · 07/05/2023 09:22

AP5Diva · 07/05/2023 09:14

It didn’t cost us taxpayers a penny. In fact the Government made a minimum of £800m on it.

Taxpayers funded it. The amount the coronation adds to the economy is highly debatable given the it follows the jubilee and funeral in quick succession. (If that’s what you’re referring to - no idea where you got the 800 million figure).

Ladybowes · 07/05/2023 09:23

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/05/2023 09:21

There will NEVER be a "true meritocracy" anywhere. People with money will make sure of that.

Do you think our politicians are all there on merit? A few are, but most are there because they went to the "right" school, were shoehorned into the "right" universities, had parents with clout who got them started and funded their campaigns . . . and these are our "elected" politicians. (I put "elected" in inverted commas because were are steered towards a small pool which only has these few (often rotten) fish splashing about in it to make our choices from.)

No but as I said in another post a total revamp of the system might help to fix the system.. doing nothings seems worse in my opinion.

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