Sil

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Sil checking I've left the shared Abnb okay. We both paid for it. She went into my shared bedroom with her brother to check we left it ok. We did. Am I being unreasonable to think she was a cheeky fucker and overstepping boundaries.

I'm quite het up on boundaries for anything and everything. This wouldn't bother me.

If I was the last to leave/it was my account, I would check the whole house, too.

Think how grateful you'd be if you'd left a bracelet on the side and she found and returned it.

Also, my husband cleans much more than I do, but I have a higher cleanliness level (skirting boards etc) so I would also check up on the cleaning around, even though he cleans more in general. It's just about how your mind works and where you look.

The AIBU was she said I don't have the same cleanliness priorities as she does

Yeah that makes her a bit of a rude twat, unless you are completely minging