If party is say beginning of month let’s say February 2nd (not real dates!) and I ask for RSVP by 14th January so roughly 2 weeks before event is it unreasonable? Tbh I would like to do it earlier like 3 weeks before but worried I might come across as too organised or whatever any other word for it is. It’s for a kids party. I’m inviting whole class just to be inclusive and not leave people out but I’m hoping not all will turn up so I can invite his best friends from football and other clubs he does plus his cousin. It’s a new school so just inviting everyone. On a side note he hasn’t been invited to even one party yet and nearly end of school year!
So my question is how early can I possibly ask for RSVP? No one is surely gonna ignore my rsvp and just turn up are they? I don’t really know any of the parents yet as he started y4 in September and I work full time so use breakfast club and after school a lot. On my days off I have tried to engage in conversations with them but either they’re very shy or just can’t be asked to get to know the new mum, but also this will be a good way to meet them do you think?