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AIBU?

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Am I imagining things?

3 replies

Knittingandcats · 04/05/2023 16:01

DH is going on a business trip round Europe next week for 2wks. We live in Asia. I've just got his itinerary and he has a free weekend in London so I asked if he was planning anything... he said no, but had arranged drinks other evenings with colleagues etc.
However, I know he has arranged to go for drinks with an female ex colleague on Saturday night that he arranged a week ago. So why didn't he tell me that? He's met her before for dinner etc and it's not an issue as they were good friends when they worked at the same company but why not say anything? Surely that was the perfect opportunity?
I'm not really sure what to think... he is a flirt but I would never imagine he'd do anything more. And she lives the other side of the planet.
Am IBU to view this with anything but suspicion?

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Laiste · 04/05/2023 16:02

YANBU to be a bit sus if you've specifically asked him his plans and he's lied.

Inthesamesinkingboat · 04/05/2023 16:03

Either it is so innocent and she is so boring he didn’t think to mention it. Or it is so spicy and she is so sexy he better not.

My guess on which option it is is as good as yours.

Dontbelieveaword · 04/05/2023 16:15

How do you know he's meeting her? And if you know it for a fact that he's meeting her and her alone, why have you not asked him why he lied?

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