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Aghhh Men, annoying myself

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ludicrouslycapaciousbags · 03/05/2023 18:44

So I know I'm being unreasonable but not wanting to talk this through in real life, turning to MN for you to give my head a wobble.

Met a guy on Sunday night, in real life which is a rare occurrence these days! Spent the best part of 3 hours talking really hit it off, drunken kiss and numbers exchanged.

He had text by the time I was up the road to check I got home ok, chatted all day Monday, I wasn't the most speedy at replying but answered all his messages and had a good laugh. He last messaged on Monday night I was asleep but I messaged him back yesterday morning and then nothing, zilch, nada, he has read the message.

As I am a neurotic being I have been checking WhatsApp and he never seems to be online well not the times I'm checking anyway 😂

So wise ones what has happened here:

A) not interested
B) has a partner
C) phone spontaneously combust

Any other suggestions?

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Eggseggseverywhere · 03/05/2023 18:53

Bloke away for the weekend and now home to dw?
Or a bloke not ready for a relationship genuinely?
Probably never know op..

19lottie82 · 03/05/2023 18:59

sorry if I sound blunt but it doesn’t sound like he’s into you for whatever reason, maybe he has a partner and has had second thoughts?

other posters will say not replying for 2 days isn’t a big deal but I know if I liked someone I’d be sitting waiting for their messages.

as the old saying goes, if he wanted to, he would.

ludicrouslycapaciousbags · 03/05/2023 19:07

@Eggseggseverywhere

Thanks! He's defo local but agree will probably never know

@19lottie82

No blunt is good! Agree if you like someone then you keep the chat going

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Eggseggseverywhere · 03/05/2023 19:10

If you know his full name have you Googled him?

ludicrouslycapaciousbags · 03/05/2023 19:15

Never got surname...

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