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To feel a bit sorry for Robbie Williams’ wife Ayda?

174 replies

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 15:18

Not a huge fan of hers as she bought her last baby from a poorer woman but he sounds like an arse who dictates when they have sex according to this

https://uk.style.yahoo.com/robbie-williams-ayda-field-how-often-have-sex-094415256.html

So when he was on testosterone they had sex all the time and were ‘insatiable’ but now he’s off that they’re both apparently cool with their sex life being dead? And ‘everyone knows’ married couples don’t have sex anyway?

Robbie Williams and Ayda Field say they hardly ever have sex and ‘cuddle’ instead

Robbie Williams has discussed his sex life with wife Ayda Field revealing the reasons the couple hardly get intimate.

https://uk.style.yahoo.com/robbie-williams-ayda-field-how-often-have-sex-094415256.html

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PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:47

ClaudiaWankleman · 26/04/2023 17:02

Speculation about who is gay and who is lesbian is almost always predicated on assumptions and lazy stereotypes about what gay and lesbian people should be. It's inevitably informed by societal prejudice and leads to nothing but negative outcomes for those affected.

Pathetic and nasty way to behave isn't it?

Bluebells1970 · 26/04/2023 17:47

I wonder if Robbie Williams even knows who he is. He showed such talent at the beginning of his solo career but that turned out to be Guy Chambers... hasn't put out a decent recording since they parted ways.

He and Ayda both seem to know the score though - they're only relevant as a couple. Miserable as sin together but knowing they're not marketable solo. Bit like The Beckhams.

PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:49

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 17:42

Renting a poor women’s womb and taking her baby for money is a fairly horrible thing to do IMO.

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@Guarentinaflo

FFS. 🙄 You know NOTHING about Ayda and Robbie OR their surrogate. Also, why is AYDA getting the 'blame' for using a surrogate?! She AND Robbie were involved. Horrible misogynistic comment, and utterly shameful for you to blame the WOMAN. Disgraceful. Hmm The more you post, the worse you sound.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 26/04/2023 17:51

ItsCalledAConversation · 26/04/2023 15:27

I felt sorry for her when that clip came out of him being Robbie Williams while she was in labour.

Came on the thread to say this. He's lucky he left that delivery room alive.

Twatalert · 26/04/2023 17:51

I don't feel sorry for her. Have you looked at her insta? She posts a lot of him and I often think she's using him to increase her own profile. They are as good as each other and probably just right for one another.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 26/04/2023 17:52

A baby ‘via surrogate’. Like going to Oxford via Newbury…..🚑🚔

Lampzade · 26/04/2023 17:58

3luckystars · 26/04/2023 16:24

splitsville

all they need now is to renew the vows and it’s all over bar the shouting. The writing is on the wall.

This
Can’t see these two lasting tbh

dailytalk · 26/04/2023 17:59

Twatalert · 26/04/2023 17:51

I don't feel sorry for her. Have you looked at her insta? She posts a lot of him and I often think she's using him to increase her own profile. They are as good as each other and probably just right for one another.

Been together since 2010

dailytalk · 26/04/2023 18:00

Bluebells1970 · 26/04/2023 17:47

I wonder if Robbie Williams even knows who he is. He showed such talent at the beginning of his solo career but that turned out to be Guy Chambers... hasn't put out a decent recording since they parted ways.

He and Ayda both seem to know the score though - they're only relevant as a couple. Miserable as sin together but knowing they're not marketable solo. Bit like The Beckhams.

David is a talented footballer. Doesn't do much else, doesn't need to.

His wife has a fashion brand which is supposed to be successful,

caramac04 · 26/04/2023 18:04

Not keen on him, don’t really know anything about his wife.
Their sex life should be kept private imo but I’m sure someone will say it’s great cos it normalises low libido.
All a bit attention seeking and it’s worked.

Americano75 · 26/04/2023 18:05

I think the delivery room shenanigans is something they were both into to be fair.

To feel a bit sorry for Robbie Williams’ wife Ayda?
PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 18:05

Lampzade · 26/04/2023 17:58

This
Can’t see these two lasting tbh

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Nasty post. Some really spiteful, bile filled, vitriolic posts on here. The vipers have woken up!

IncompleteSenten · 26/04/2023 18:05

I didn't know he was married to a woman. I thought he was gay.

I'm sure they have the relationship that suits them. It's really their business. I'm not sure why they think anyone wants to know about their sex life.

FabulouslyFab · 26/04/2023 18:06

Any publicity is good publicity I guess!

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Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 18:08

PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:49

@Guarentinaflo

FFS. 🙄 You know NOTHING about Ayda and Robbie OR their surrogate. Also, why is AYDA getting the 'blame' for using a surrogate?! She AND Robbie were involved. Horrible misogynistic comment, and utterly shameful for you to blame the WOMAN. Disgraceful. Hmm The more you post, the worse you sound.

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Defending poor women who are used by rich couples like R and A is hardly misogynistic, but you seem very invested in defending the human trafficking and exploitation of women’s bodies that is commercial surrogacy, so I’m going to disengage now. Do think about why you’re getting so angry though, and whether it’s really ok to pay a women to go through nine months of pregnancy and then labour to then remove her baby. It benefits no one but the buyers. Certainly not in the baby or mother’s best interests.

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Groggygymdodger · 26/04/2023 18:09

Can’t get past why you’d feel pity for her , she’s happy not having sex at this time in her life. I don’t think she needs your pity.

Flowerly · 26/04/2023 18:10

Nap1983 · 26/04/2023 15:26

Tbh I feel sorry for her because he is clearly gay.

😂

Crinkle77 · 26/04/2023 18:11

I don't know why people in the public eye feel the need to tell everyone about their sex lives anyway. Whether they're having it or not who cares and it's usually women who feel the need to provevthey're still sexy. I don't why they feel the need to do that.

Liorae · 26/04/2023 18:13

IncompleteSenten · 26/04/2023 18:05

I didn't know he was married to a woman. I thought he was gay.

I'm sure they have the relationship that suits them. It's really their business. I'm not sure why they think anyone wants to know about their sex life.

And business it is.

RedTulipsSpring · 26/04/2023 18:14

Nap1983 · 26/04/2023 15:26

Tbh I feel sorry for her because he is clearly gay.

I thought he’d come out?

PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 18:20

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 18:08

Defending poor women who are used by rich couples like R and A is hardly misogynistic, but you seem very invested in defending the human trafficking and exploitation of women’s bodies that is commercial surrogacy, so I’m going to disengage now. Do think about why you’re getting so angry though, and whether it’s really ok to pay a women to go through nine months of pregnancy and then labour to then remove her baby. It benefits no one but the buyers. Certainly not in the baby or mother’s best interests.

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@Guarentinaflo

I'm going to disengage now...

Can't explain why you are so angry about what people you don't even know do, and have no argument. BYE then.

OldFan · 26/04/2023 18:29

No one needs 4 children, no matter the arguments for or against surrogacy it's just vanity to have more than 2 if you can't have them yourselves.

?

Why is whether a couple can have children relevant to the number they 'should' have? Why should an infertile couple not have the same freedom to have whatever family size they want as others?

(Not that I agree with surrogacy anyway tho.)

LadyVictoriaSponge · 26/04/2023 18:41

I think the remarks from Peter Crouch and Abi Clancey at the end of the article are far more cringe, when someone has to annouce how freaky and dirty they are in bed to the world it reeks of desperation to prove they are still swinging from the chandelier when they are probably doing anything but.

PollyPeptide · 26/04/2023 18:42

I don't feel sorry for her. She gets his money and clout, and doesn't have to sleep with him.
Sounds like a win/win to me.

drumandthebass · 26/04/2023 18:59

I'm just wondering why they thought the world would be interested in this? Why the need for people to share such private information. I couldn't give a fucking fuck how often people have sex