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To feel a bit sorry for Robbie Williams’ wife Ayda?

174 replies

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 15:18

Not a huge fan of hers as she bought her last baby from a poorer woman but he sounds like an arse who dictates when they have sex according to this

https://uk.style.yahoo.com/robbie-williams-ayda-field-how-often-have-sex-094415256.html

So when he was on testosterone they had sex all the time and were ‘insatiable’ but now he’s off that they’re both apparently cool with their sex life being dead? And ‘everyone knows’ married couples don’t have sex anyway?

Robbie Williams and Ayda Field say they hardly ever have sex and ‘cuddle’ instead

Robbie Williams has discussed his sex life with wife Ayda Field revealing the reasons the couple hardly get intimate.

https://uk.style.yahoo.com/robbie-williams-ayda-field-how-often-have-sex-094415256.html

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MermaidEyes · 26/04/2023 17:02

JMSA · 26/04/2023 16:41

He's a tit. Just like my other favourite, James Corden. There's nothing on this earth worse than a show-offy male.

Yes to both of them. Don't know anything about their wives but they chose to marry them and stay married so there's a good chance they're tits too.

ClaudiaWankleman · 26/04/2023 17:02

Speculation about who is gay and who is lesbian is almost always predicated on assumptions and lazy stereotypes about what gay and lesbian people should be. It's inevitably informed by societal prejudice and leads to nothing but negative outcomes for those affected.

muckandmerriment · 26/04/2023 17:09

Do you actually believe stuff like this?

SugarSyrup · 26/04/2023 17:10

'bought her last baby from a poorer woman' what a horrible phrase to use. Surrogacy is a valid choice for women, both as the surrogates and the receiving mother.

Also, I'm sure if she wanted more sex he'd give it. Most likely, like many mums her age including myself she's happy now his rampant sex drive has quietened down somewhat.

MangoPi · 26/04/2023 17:10

I don't think he is gay.

He has openly spoken about his sexuality, more than once - he said he considered it when he was 21 but not because he was sexually attracted to men but because he liked stereotypical 'gay' things and that homophobia was rife back then and because he didn't hate gay men, he questioned it.

That's actually very sad and the comment on here 'i feel sorry for her because he is clearly gay' is very ignorant.

IncognitoBurrito · 26/04/2023 17:11

It’ll be a side effect of antidepressants which have killed his libido. He’s famously depressive. Not great for her though.

LadyJ2023 · 26/04/2023 17:11

Clearly you don't have children or or in a happy marriage

Naunet · 26/04/2023 17:14

SugarSyrup · 26/04/2023 17:10

'bought her last baby from a poorer woman' what a horrible phrase to use. Surrogacy is a valid choice for women, both as the surrogates and the receiving mother.

Also, I'm sure if she wanted more sex he'd give it. Most likely, like many mums her age including myself she's happy now his rampant sex drive has quietened down somewhat.

In the same way that prostitutes are a valid choice for men who can’t get laid (or can, but want something different)?

AskMeMore · 26/04/2023 17:14

Nap1983 · 26/04/2023 15:26

Tbh I feel sorry for her because he is clearly gay.

Agree

OldFan · 26/04/2023 17:18

How is that different to any other couple? I mean loads of women have lower libidos after childbirth or during perimenopause and no one calls them 'an arse who dictates when they have sex'

@Cheetahmum There's a big difference between someone saying they don't feel like sex and someone trying to get their partner to have sex when they don't want it.

Twinsmummy1812 · 26/04/2023 17:20

I think that’s hilarious! I must have the same juvenile sense of humour

Randomuser9876 · 26/04/2023 17:20

Not sure if he's gay or not but there's something really off about him (not that there's anything off about our gay cohort but it would be rather inauthentic of him)

He'd so dead behind the eyes and manic.

No one needs 4 children, no matter the arguments for or against surrogacy it's just vanity to have more than 2 if you can't have them yourselves.

That said i saw him in concert in 1998 promoting his first album and he was an amazing performer, so much charisma.

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 26/04/2023 17:26

Her lips freak me out. She looks like a duck billed platypus.

Sarahtm35 · 26/04/2023 17:35

You say he’s an ass because he dictates when they have sex, but what if she was off sex? Would you say it was wrong for her to dictate or would you say it’s her right as a human to say no to sex? Surely he shouldn’t feel obliged to have sex whenever she asks for it?
i think people assume that focus on relationship is a constant when you’re in one and forget that sometimes we have bigger priorities then the relationship and occasionally have to take a step back and just let it be.
this is why some people end relationships, forgetting that it’s ok to be concentrating on other aspects of life.
the most important thing is that you still love and respect each other. If the sex dwindles it doesn’t mean it will forever, it’s just a case of waiting for it to pick back up again and remaining faithful to each other.

PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:38

Nap1983 · 26/04/2023 15:26

Tbh I feel sorry for her because he is clearly gay.

🙄This tedious shit again. Grow up.

PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:39

@Guarentinaflo

Not a huge fan of hers as she bought her last baby from a poorer woman.

You know she doesn't give a shit about your opinion of her right?

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 17:42

SugarSyrup · 26/04/2023 17:10

'bought her last baby from a poorer woman' what a horrible phrase to use. Surrogacy is a valid choice for women, both as the surrogates and the receiving mother.

Also, I'm sure if she wanted more sex he'd give it. Most likely, like many mums her age including myself she's happy now his rampant sex drive has quietened down somewhat.

Renting a poor women’s womb and taking her baby for money is a fairly horrible thing to do IMO.

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PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:42

MangoPi · 26/04/2023 17:10

I don't think he is gay.

He has openly spoken about his sexuality, more than once - he said he considered it when he was 21 but not because he was sexually attracted to men but because he liked stereotypical 'gay' things and that homophobia was rife back then and because he didn't hate gay men, he questioned it.

That's actually very sad and the comment on here 'i feel sorry for her because he is clearly gay' is very ignorant.

Not only an ignorant comment to say Robbie is gay, but also pathetic, laughable, and childish, and very predictable. This shit is always spouted by the hard of thinking. Robbie has never given any indication he likes men. It's a stupid lazy insult.

HuggingtheHRT · 26/04/2023 17:43

I felt sorry for her when that clip came out of him being Robbie Williams while she was in labour.

God yes, he proved himself to be a massively insensitive, narcissistic arse.

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 17:43

LadyJ2023 · 26/04/2023 17:11

Clearly you don't have children or or in a happy marriage

Quite the opposite I’m afraid - which is why I feel sorry for her!

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TheChoiceIsYours · 26/04/2023 17:43

ThanksItHasPockets · 26/04/2023 15:59

I've never much liked him but his 'like watching your favourite pub burn down' joke about seeing his wife give birth was a nail in the coffin for me.

It isn’t even his joke, it’s well known as an old joke (I forget whose). Watching him try and make it as an original joke on a chat show made me cringe myself inside out, so embarrassing.

Guarentinaflo · 26/04/2023 17:44

PrettyMaybug · 26/04/2023 17:39

@Guarentinaflo

Not a huge fan of hers as she bought her last baby from a poorer woman.

You know she doesn't give a shit about your opinion of her right?

No really?? I’d hoped she might read this thread and DM me to try to change my mind about her!

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Always4Brenner · 26/04/2023 17:46

Never liked don’t know who she is but feel sorry for her.

EatingWormsMichael · 26/04/2023 17:46

whumpthereitis · 26/04/2023 15:45

Would feel more sympathy for her if she was having sex with Robbie Williams.

Comment of the century 👏

KTSl1964 · 26/04/2023 17:47

Thanks for sharing the clip - I hadn’t seen it and it made me laugh. Humour is good - it can distract from pain. 😁