We have a nice hotel in our town and I said to DH last night that I'd love to go stay in it for the night. To just relax, watch crap TV on a big bed, soak in the bath, order food and not have to wash up etc.. basically just spend a night away from the chaos of home.
We have one toddler together and DH has two other children too from previous relationship. So between 3 kids, work, pets, general life I just feel like I never get any time to just be.
He said that we should do it and book a nights stay and I said I actually meant by myself.
He thinks this is weird and is hurt I wouldn't want to stay with him.
So basically is it weird to want to spend a night in a hotel without DH and AIBU to do it?