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One Post Wonders!

19 replies

Seymour5 · 24/04/2023 08:46

There are so many threads now where the OP either never replies or replies once to lots of input. I have recently started to check ‘see all posts’ by the OP before reading on. I find it odd that someone starts an online discussion, where a number of people have taken the time to write a response, never to be seen again.

Anyone else ever wonder why it hapoens?

OP posts:
MiIIiee · 24/04/2023 08:47

I think its when the responses immediately don't go their way they just get off 🤣

JuneShitfield · 24/04/2023 08:48

A lot of them are thread-starters posted for screenshots, especially the ones on the more contentious subjects.

Greensleevevssnotnose · 24/04/2023 08:48

Yeah lots recently I am doing the same. They don't put enough information for us to help get asked loads of questions and never bother to return. Rude and timewasting.

FiveShelties · 24/04/2023 08:49

I think somewhere there is a competition for the number of replies and how wound up everyone gets. Usually the op has never posted before.

SoupDragon · 24/04/2023 08:52

I have recently started to check ‘see all posts’ by the OP before reading on

If it doesn't say "see next" I don't even bother doing that as there aren't any other posts.

Holycow23x · 24/04/2023 08:54

Yeah, I wonder this too. Like the girl who started a thread a few weeks ago and her friends didn’t turn up to her house one night for drinks and she was so upset and there was so many replies supporting her but she never returned. I think it’s still active 🤣🤣

catinthesunshine · 24/04/2023 08:58

JuneShitfield · 24/04/2023 08:48

A lot of them are thread-starters posted for screenshots, especially the ones on the more contentious subjects.

What does ‘for screenshots’ mean here?

LuvMyBoyz · 24/04/2023 09:15

I’ll come back when the OP does!

xogossipgirlxo · 24/04/2023 09:24

catinthesunshine · 24/04/2023 08:58

What does ‘for screenshots’ mean here?

I think for other forums, facebook groups or daily mail 😬

FiveShelties · 24/04/2023 09:25

LuvMyBoyz · 24/04/2023 09:15

I’ll come back when the OP does!

Surely not another one post wonder🙄

Hobnobswantshernameback · 24/04/2023 09:28

because nine times out of ten they're goady trolls who bitchplop and run

halfsiesonapotnoodle · 24/04/2023 09:30

They're fake posts in the main, I find.

Seymour5 · 24/04/2023 09:36

SoupDragon · 24/04/2023 08:52

I have recently started to check ‘see all posts’ by the OP before reading on

If it doesn't say "see next" I don't even bother doing that as there aren't any other posts.

Thats a good idea!

I’m glad its not only me who finds it odd.

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Chattycathydoll · 24/04/2023 09:38

Might also be overwhelm. Post something you’re unsure about (hence approaching a forum of strangers) and get piles of replies, half of them arguing with each other and sidetracking the original point- it’s overwhelming and people run away?

Catsmere · 24/04/2023 09:38

Hobnobswantshernameback · 24/04/2023 09:28

because nine times out of ten they're goady trolls who bitchplop and run

Never heard that term before, sounds like doggy diarrhoea! 😆

Fromage · 24/04/2023 09:46

lol at bitchplop

I do the same as SoupDragon unless it's a very new thread.

Sometimes people can't get back to their thread for hours, sometimes they don't like the replies, sometimes they change their minds or are recognised or find out they were at fault the entire time or who knows.

ellebelli · 24/04/2023 09:50

Yeah if no see all I tend to only read a few of the replies or just close it..depends.

Seymour5 · 24/04/2023 09:50

@Fromage yes, its reasonable not to reply when its very recent. But I also wonder when there is just an opening post, why there are so many responses even after its fairly obvious the OP isn’t coming back.

I’m going out now, will return PM!

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Hobnobswantshernameback · 24/04/2023 09:56

Mostly these sorts of threads have somewhat....controversial topics
I mean that might just be coincidental....

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