Don't get me wrong I think it's lovely to receive birthday and Xmas cards, but I do understand why some people don't bother.
We've always dents cards to my mums sisters family, however, not all of my cousins have sent them back. Absolutely fine, not bothered, their choice.
My mum wants me to co to us to send them cards as she doesn't want to upset anyone, but I sort of feel like if they don't send them they most likely don't want to receive them. I had 5 cousins on this side who I'm not close to but do message on birthdays. One
Cousins sends me and my children cards.
I just feel like o should send cards to those who send them to me just out of respect for the fact the others don't send them and for me to keep sending them might make them feel Incomfortable. But also is it a. It weird to send them to one but not the others?