First sexual experiences...

[thymewaster]

Aibu or aibta?

Years ago dp told me that his cousin forced him into having sex with her as a child. She is only a few years older than him but would've been a child himself. I've never met this cousin as they migrated. So nothing to see for myself as such.

Dp says this is normal that cousins experiment sexually with each other.
Erm where I'm from not at all... that would repulse me.

For background we are both from Uk (both west London but different parts) 10 years between us.

Just to warn you, OP, people may worry you are seeking stories about children having sex. There are weirdos about, sadly.

Why would thinking that make you u or ta?

I would be wary of making him feel uncomfortable about it as well.

No it's not normal but it highlights points that people often forget, most sexual abuse is done by a family member or friend, and that female-on-male sexual abuse happens too.