I have a big birthday coming up next month, DP has booked a surprise weekend away for us.
As I'm having a really shitty time at the moment, with poorly relatives, major house reno, work problems, ex husband problems, my stress levels and anxiety are through the roof (he knows this) I'm so so tired, exhausted in fact, mentally and physically, I was really hoping that we'd be going away for a quiet weekend, maybe somewhere with a hot tub, or just a quiet town with nice restaurants.
Also, I'm not sporty, not adventurous, not a thrill seeker, so please tell me why a man who has known me for over a decade has booked a wild weekend of zip lining? He doesn't know that I know this btw, it's supposed to be a secret!
YABU - don't be so ungrateful, live life, have fun
YANBU - he's booked this as its something he wants to do/he thinks you should want to do