To think he actually enjoys trying to make me feel jealous?

[FloJao]

I have been with my boyfriend for a few years. We don’t live together. He is a lot older than me but throughout our relationship he has always accused me of being jealous.

A new next door neighbour has recently moved in next door to his house. I asked him what he was doing today and he replied (sorry for the graphic language) that he was ‘going to lick the minge of the next door neighbour’. When I asked him if he’d even met her he went on to add that she was ‘a little blonde bird’ and then said he could feel me getting jealous.

I mean this isn’t normal behaviour is it? Throughout our relationship he has made me feel like I’m acting irrationally whenever I raised concerns.

Dear God! I am glad to hear you are having counselling as no woman with an ounce of self respect would want a man like that.

I hope you find the strength to ditch him soon 🤮

Gross. I would not allow him to touch me again.

I don't think you have anything you worry about, no one will touch him with a barge pole, gross.

Well he's a grimmer on all counts isn't he?

I haven't heard the word 'minge' in many years...thankfully. Personally I would have replied that he was showing his age using such terminology, I had beaten him to it, and that she was a better catch than him so you were moving on. No grown man worth keeping around acts like this, so lose the loser.

I doubt the neighbour would let a creep like that near her. 🤢

He sounds vile, I can’t stand men who speak about females using this sort of language, I find them repulsive. it’s even more tragic that he is 50 and speaking like this.You are wasting your time being with this type of man.

Vulgar
Disrespectful
Selfish
Insecure
A bully
Emotionally retarded
Mentally abusive
Unattractive
Gaslighter

What's not to love?

Run for the hills.

He makes Jay from the Inbetweeners look like Mr Darcy!!
OP. I think he does enjoy making you jealous. It is giving him an ego boost and is his way of 'keeping you in line'.
He's a prize prick!!

How revolting 🤢

My reaction to stuff like that - sexually explicit comments, recounting of past conquests etc - is a very sarcastic and scathing "wow, classy". The few times I've had to use it they were definitely taken aback with my reaction. Suggesting they're trash certainly turns it around quickly.

Next time he rings tell him you can't talk long you are off to give the window cleaner a blow job. Then block him.

🚩🚩

Disgusting
Better to be single than waste your time with a man like this
It's ingrained now he's in his 50's
Get rid

I asked him what he was doing today and he replied (sorry for the graphic language) that he was ‘going to lick the minge of the next door neighbour’

And they say romance is dead!

Hope you ditch this repulsive specimen.

It’s not normal or acceptable behaviour from another human.
He sounds like a horrible person.
You deserve better, please make a plan to leave x

I asked him what he was doing today and he replied (sorry for the graphic language) that he was ‘going to lick the minge of the next door neighbour’

She's in for a disappointing afternoon then.

Seriously leave the prick

God he sounds revolting. Never mind jealous, how have you not got the ick? He sounds like he’s about 12.

I am really sure you can find someone not so utterly vile.

Yuk are you with Jay from inbetweeners by any chance?! I’d say by pal I’m off lick whoever’s minge takes ya fancy! You’ll need to do that to compensate ya prawn dick!

me too

Christ what did I just read. How can you stand to be with someone like this. He’s fucking grim.

- NOT envy

Throw him back where he came from.

Fucking hell.
You might want to reconsider what counts as suitable boyfriend material.