Aibu not being told going out

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asked dp wgat he was doing today , turns out he is off to buy the a car , first I have heard off it . Last year I was going away for weekend he kept saying what time you leaving , turns out he was supposed to be other side of country buying a car and he hadn’t told me , it’s not our money but it really annoys me he doesn’t bother to tell me what he is up to . He wfh so I always ask him what happened today when I get home .Aibu in thinking he should actually tell me when he has planned something instead of 5 min before he goes out . ?

Those fixated on the car don’t seem to have experience of car people.

OP isn’t talking about him going to buy their new daily car, she’s talking about him spending his own personal spending money on his own hobby, which happens to be cars.

my husband buys welding equipment. He doesn’t have to announce it, or explain it.

I buy horse equipment and occasionally horses. It’s my money and doesn’t have much changeable impact on him, so whilst I do usually mention it because I’m excited, I don’t feel obligated to.