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lucya66 · 10/04/2023 22:31

A month ago, I booked an acupuncture appointment for May. The acupuncturist has a website with some fairly credible looking reviews.

They emailed me to ask me to pay upfront as they get a lot of cancellations. They want me to pay now although the appointment is in May.

is it reasonable to ask for payment upfront? They’ve sent me a link to pay online. I’ve never met them in person or spoken on the phone. All via email.

my risk is I could pay and then turn up in May and they don’t even exist (scam) although that feels unlikely given I’ve seen a convincing ish website.

should I pay?

yabu - it’s standard to pay upfront, go ahead.

yanbu - don’t pay until you’ve confirmed it’s not a scammer by meeting in person.

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gamerchick · 10/04/2023 22:32

Not a chance in hell. A deposit I could understand but not payment in full to some random website.

Anonposter123 · 10/04/2023 23:21

A small deposit is normal / reasonable.
full payment isn’t

lucya66 · 11/04/2023 21:22

Thanks 😊

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