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AIBU?

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To think he doesn't

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mrsspoonn · 05/04/2023 22:01

Fancy me?

So apart from the fact I'm not his type (he likes skinny brunette emo girls and I am a curvy blonde girly girl)

Since we've been together we hardly ever have sex. And when we do have sex, he doesn't touch me. We rarely kiss. It is literally me giving him foreplay and then him putting it in. He doesn't last long either.

He used to have sex with his first ex all the time, but the last girl he was with he didn't have sex with much because he didn't like her (she's a friend of a friend, so I know a bit about their relationship). He didn't fancy her so they hardly ever had sex. Same as me really...

He never seems interested in me. Doesn't check me out, doesn't initiate anything, doesn't seem to like me at all.

We have talked so many times about it and he swears he likes me but he gives me a million excuses (none of which make sense, like hes worried the kids will hear us, but they're out)

It's been 2 years since we met... the last 6 months we've had sex maybe 10 times. All of which I initiated. If I didn't initiate it, we wouldn't be doing anything at all.

I have a high sex drive and feel I am pressuring him unintentionally.

AIBU to leave?

OP posts:
mycatsanutter · 05/04/2023 22:31

This doesn't sound great tbh , are you living together ?

UWhatNow · 05/04/2023 22:33

Yes leave. From what you’ve written it doesn’t sound like a match made in heaven. Why flog a dead horse?

determinedtomakethiswork · 05/04/2023 22:45

Why on earth would you stay with a man like this? You have one life! Why would you spend it with him?

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