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To think things can turn around after a bad third date?

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DatingDaisy · 05/04/2023 17:44

We seemed like great matches from our profiles… The first date went well…. The second date went very well. It felt like we really connected and we kissed at the end…

The third date was a total flop. Whereas we’d previously been on the same page, we suddenly weren’t at all. There was zero physical contact.

Is it salvageable do you think? Or if things go wrong that early on, is it a sign that it just isn’t meant to be long-term?

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MatildaTheCat · 05/04/2023 17:45

I’d give it one more go if you still feel interested. We all have off days. Does he want to meet again?

Crazycatlady83 · 05/04/2023 17:48

It shouldn't be hard three dates in. Ditch and move on.

Greensleevevssnotnose · 05/04/2023 17:50

We broke up after three dates, but it was because he was afraid if his feelings. Got to get her couple months later and it's 10 years now. So yes it can be difficult and yes it is worth trying again.

DatingDaisy · 05/04/2023 19:28

I am initiating. He has agreed but doesn’t sound that keen.

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Pottedpalm · 05/04/2023 19:31

Why bother? If you have to make an effort to get on at this stage it’s not looking good.

DatingDaisy · 05/04/2023 19:34

That’s interesting. Do you think the time interval helped? I genuinely am going away for a couple of weeks next Wednesday and am wondering whether it would be better to wait to meet again after that.

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