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AIBU?

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To be upset with him!

5 replies

peekaboo321 · 25/03/2023 18:30

I separated from my partner last year and he stayed in the house while me and the kids moved out to my mums.
He kept saying how he wanted us back, wanted to be a family etc. we've been back a few weeks and this week me and 1 year old had covid. Baby girl been very poorly with it and had a seizure.
Wednesday night he goes out watching football until midnight.
Today he chooses to go and watch football again, leaving me who's still feeling lousy with both kids.

AIBU to be hurt? His reason was we couldn't go out anyway.. but I said you should want to stay with us even if it's a sofa day watching films? I work Sundays so we only get 1 weekend day together.
He sees no wrong in it.

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Cherrysoup · 25/03/2023 18:50

Your baby had a seizure and he’s gone out twice?! Does he just not give a fuck? I’d be appalled if my dp did that. Why did you originally split up?

peekaboo321 · 25/03/2023 18:51

@Cherrysoup yes she had a seizure on Mother's Day due to her high temp. We spent all day in hospital. He went out Wednesday night until gone midnight and again today. Several reasons really.. he cheated on me while I was pregnant amongst other things x

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Cherrysoup · 25/03/2023 18:53

Can I ask why you have gone back to him? He sounds like a right prize!

Sealover123 · 25/03/2023 18:55

I would cut it off personally, a man who cheats on his pregnant partner is selfish and immature and unlikely to change. One would hope he'd want quality time with his poor daughter after experiencing a seizure :(
Sorry you're dealing with this xxx

CatchYouOnTheFlippetyFlop · 25/03/2023 19:47

He sounds like a prince among men. I can see why you took him back 🙄.

Seriously though, how does he enrich yours and your children's life?

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