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Year 6 children weigh in and measurements

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Yoyo2021 · 24/03/2023 18:47

Hi all,

Just received a email about the nhs coming in to weigh my child’s year group and measure height etc.

It said this will be done in a private room.

I’ve opted out following the link.

I just think what’s the point my child isn’t under weight or over weight!

If I had cause for concern I would go to the doctors!

AIBU

Year 6 children weigh in and measurements
OP posts:
BrutusMcDogface · 25/03/2023 14:29

bellac11 · 25/03/2023 12:08

What do you think of that initiative?

My OH and me are utterly perplexed when we see that advert, why encourage children to see vegetables as an awful sinister concept, the ad makes no sense at all.

Bizarre

I completely agree! I think it’s a desperate tactic. Nothing else they’ve attempted to do has actually worked.

poshme · 25/03/2023 14:33

I did explain that- nurse still asked me questions about diet etc.

EggBlanket · 25/03/2023 21:50

Morecrimblecrumble · 25/03/2023 11:29

But currently it seems the weighing scheme is a bit of a dead end isn’t it.. nothing constructive and successful comes of it to address the issue (or rather, nothing apparent to parents).
Kids keep getting fatter, we keep weighing them ad nauseam.

Yes, useful data set etc. useful for medication doses as noted above. But the key missing piece seems to be facilitating healthier life styles systemically.

maybe I am missing something.

Maybe if we didn’t keep voting for the nasty party we might end up with some useful policies. We can dream.

BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou · 25/03/2023 22:08

These data captures are important. SOME parents are blind to what is “normal”. I am having to find another supplier for our school uniform as the largest our current one can provide is an adult XL. This is TOO SMALL for some if our children. Including one in YEAR 4! When I tell parents we don’t have anything to fit their child they look at me as if I have two heads “but she’s a healthy sized 10 year old”. NO SHE ISN’T. Our largest sweatshirt too big for my healthy sized 6ft tall husband it should not be too big for a 10 year old!

BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou · 25/03/2023 22:09

That last bit should be - it should not be TOO SMALL for a 10 year old.

BrutusMcDogface · 26/03/2023 10:52

Dear god, that’s shocking @BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou 😔

TimandGinger · 27/03/2023 11:40

There's a lad of about 12 I see who plays tennis at a club my kids go to for lessons. His parents stand and watch shouting at him to do better. 🙄
The thing is, he's very noticeably overweight and unfit. I can't understand how they can't see that the best thing to improve his tennis would be to lose weight. He can't possibly keep up with the uber fit boys who he plays against. It must be so demoralising for him.
The parents are seriously overweight too. It's bizarre how blind some people are. I do wonder what the parents of overweight kids see when they see healthier weighing children? There's a girl in my daughter's class who is really overweight and the parents are always joking about the amount of snacks she eats. The parents are skinny beans and the mum is a doctor.
My neighbour was shocked when a t shirt my son wears was too small for her son who's three years younger, because he has a gut. She's not done anything about it though so I'm guessing he'll stay that way. Several people I know explain their son's overweight frame by saying he'll make a good rugby player. The lads I know who play rugby to a decent standard are all skinny......

meditrina · 27/03/2023 11:52

Burntpepper · 25/03/2023 09:24

Why though? There are strict guidelines about how this scheme is carried out, schools need to make available a room where children can be weighed alone but with the relevant staff present for safeguarding purposes. The staff who do the weighing are professionals and bound by the same confidentiality and whatever else as doctors. Surely its more worrying for a child to go to the doctors to be weighed than have it done as a tiny part of the school day when their peers are having the same?

Privacy if the doctors' office won't work, as they're needed for the doctors to do their work in. Though I suppose teams could be based somewhere in clinical buildings

This is a national, annual measurement programme, that has had very high coverage of the population since just after WW2. It was done by taking the measuring teams to where children are.

I don't see how it would work anywhere near as well if children were expected to go to whatever place the measuring teams were based.

phoenixrosehere · 27/03/2023 12:16

If your child is a healthy weight as you say, what is the harm in making sure by medical professionals?

My youngest letter came in (he’s in reception), hadn’t realised his height and weight had been checked and it was written that he was a healthy weight (which I knew) but I didn’t know his height or weight which is nice information to have and save for our own records.

Bucketheadbucketbum · 28/03/2023 21:22

I suspect the OPs child is overweight and OP doesn't want to be told because the whole family is overweight and they're in denial

Gracietaylor · 07/12/2023 00:34

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eatdrinkandbemerry · 11/12/2023 17:35

I always get a letter with a follow up phone call to tell
Me my children are underweight and two of them were extremely short!
Well if you knew how long it's taken to get them referred to a paediatrician and dietitian then you would know!

Tacotortoise · 11/12/2023 17:43

I'm amazed at all these parents with children of a perfectly healthy weight being so worried about them being weighed and measured. Mine are a perfectly healthy weight and so I never gave it a second thought. Round here it's the parents of the obese children who tend to refuse.

RaspberryJamTart · 11/12/2023 17:52

I don't opt out because my DC are tall and pretty much off the scale, so if it makes them change the scale, I let them measure them

user1477391263 · 11/12/2023 22:57

They need to weigh all children without exception. If a child really does has unusual stats for a legitimate reason, it can be followed up at the doctor’s to confirm. Agree that it’s the overweight families who are opting out. They are in denial, but in their hearts they know!

Bucketheadbucketbum · 11/12/2023 23:12

100% agree, its ALWAYA the obese parents who opt out

GodspeedJune · 11/12/2023 23:39

Well I’ve just done my BMI, it’s 19.5 so definitely not overweight and I’ll be opting out.

I had friends with eating disorders in my teens and it haunts me.

Coyoacan · 12/12/2023 00:09

WeCome1 · 24/03/2023 19:17

Given the increase in obese children, what do you think they should do instead?

Maybe they could exercise some control over processed food

TrixieFatell · 12/12/2023 00:17

I've always withdrawn my children from the data collection. I have very tall slim children so I'm confident they are not overweight.

LuciferRising · 12/12/2023 08:06

Oh yes, all MNs children are tall and slim. Yet the rest of the population are mainly overweight.

RaspberryJamTart · 12/12/2023 09:35

@LuciferRising my DC were at last measurement 99.97 and 99.98 centile...so yes tall

shearwater2 · 12/12/2023 09:40

Public data collection is necessary, however, so is the right to object and to not to be a part of it. Otherwise we become North Korea. So, YANBU.

TrixieFatell · 12/12/2023 12:23

RaspberryJamTart · 12/12/2023 09:35

@LuciferRising my DC were at last measurement 99.97 and 99.98 centile...so yes tall

Same with mine. My middle had to go into size 6 womens trousers in year 6 because the 14-15 years fitted length wise but the waist was too big for her. mine are all limbs.

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