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Year 6 children weigh in and measurements

198 replies

Yoyo2021 · 24/03/2023 18:47

Hi all,

Just received a email about the nhs coming in to weigh my child’s year group and measure height etc.

It said this will be done in a private room.

I’ve opted out following the link.

I just think what’s the point my child isn’t under weight or over weight!

If I had cause for concern I would go to the doctors!

AIBU

Year 6 children weigh in and measurements
OP posts:
Rosebel · 24/03/2023 21:43

My kids had this in reception and were both normal weight but most of the children weren't. I know because most of the parents were complaining the next day saying it was rubbish because they knew their children weren't overweight.
I refused in Y6. Pretty sure they were normal weight but they were both early developers (periods in Y5) and I was sure the measurements would say they were overweight.
Both in mid teens now and normal weight.
Absolutely no obligation to have it done if you don't want to.

GlassBunion · 24/03/2023 21:44

It was interesting to note that it was mostly the parents of overweight children who refused this check at our school.

meditrina · 24/03/2023 21:44

This paediatric survey has been running since the 1940s (under various names) and is one of the most valuable datasets there is for public health planning

It led to things like the introduction of school milk (and cod liver oil and orange juice) when the population-level data showed high rates on underweight (and likely malnourished DC).

I really hop that people do not opt out, because we really do need this kind of data.

You don't have to tell your DC the results. Only you can decide if not being measured when everyone else is having a turn (in private, obviously, but not having a turn might be noticed) is in itself sending a message

TheOrigRights · 24/03/2023 21:45

notafruit · 24/03/2023 20:05

Only age and weight is used when they asses the children. Any child who is tall for their age will be classed as overweight/obese. I have a couple of friends are very tall, and have very tall children, and they've all been classed as overweight/obese, when in reality they have a perfectly healthy weight/height ratio.

I think this is incorrect.

HostessTrolley · 24/03/2023 21:45

Burntpepper · 24/03/2023 20:46

How was she made aware of the letter though? Yes they know they get weighed, but their BMI and where this falls isn't shared with them in school, its only stated on the letter sent to parents- why did you tell her?

The majority of parents who decline do so let's be honest as their child is knowingly underweight or are overweight. Denial doesn't help a child though, nor does this scheme cause or even contribute to EDs to the extent people on here claim they do. Obesity is a big issue and a lot of parents have lost sight of what a healthy weight is and dont want to see the truth in black and white.

She was told because she'd heard others at school discussing it so she asked. I wasn't going to lie to her, but I also told her how flawed BMI is as a measure, and how muscles is more dense than fat - she's always been a bright scientifically minded girl, she's a med student now.

I didn't generalise and say that it 'contributes to EDs' for others. But it clearly stayed in her mind for her to bring it up with her therapist six years later, and she also commented about the number of girls that she was in treatment with who had the same experience in year 6 - so it must have come up in conversation

underneaththeash · 24/03/2023 21:50

@meditrina i agree it’s useful in terms of health surveillance and data collecting. But it’s the reliance on old data and centiles that is the issue. DS was 5’8 in year 6 and weighed around 10 stone, way over the expected centile, but he was really tall too.

EdithStourton · 24/03/2023 21:52

I work in a school and my anecdotal experience is that children gained weight during lockdown: DC who had not been overweight before became so.

It's very important for public health policy that the government knows what the situation is. And surely, you'd rather be alerted to a possible issue with your child's weight than just bury your head in the sand while the health issues are stored up for the future?

Bucketheadbucketbum · 24/03/2023 21:53

megletthesecond · 24/03/2023 18:53

Yabu. Many parents seem oblivious to their kids being overweight. It's storing up unpleasant long term health problems for them.

This

LondonPretty · 24/03/2023 21:57

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EggyBreads · 24/03/2023 21:57

I have no problem with my child being weighed. In my experience the parents who make a fuss about this 9 times out of 10 are the ones with fat kids and they are in denial about it.

SomePosters · 24/03/2023 22:02

Of course no one has to but not facing facts doesn’t change them

If only you knew how hard people have had to work to prove how necessary and beneficial public health intervention is before they can fund a national programme

it’s makes me so sad that every new attempt to do something positive for people’s health is opposed reactively by so many.

Over the last 100 years evidence based medicine has given us so much from vaccines, medications, surgeries and curing small pox to healthy start vouchers and 0-5 funding to address societal needs

The mining of medical data is strictly controlled as it should be. It is also changing the future of medicine as you can use big data to understand genetic diseases in a way that wouldn’t be possible if we were using paper and pen technology. In our family there is a rare condition and they are signed up to the rare conditions databases to share more than usual amounts of information as this will benefit those who come after

Public health campaigns aren’t your enemy, chronic underfunding is and they are up against that too.

meditrina · 24/03/2023 22:04

underneaththeash · 24/03/2023 21:50

@meditrina i agree it’s useful in terms of health surveillance and data collecting. But it’s the reliance on old data and centiles that is the issue. DS was 5’8 in year 6 and weighed around 10 stone, way over the expected centile, but he was really tall too.

That's why they use BMI centiles scaled for children.

How do you think the charts get updated without good population data? The British data set is one of the best in the world.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 24/03/2023 22:06

It's how they gather data on national levels of weight though. If you had concerns about your child development, you may google it and it will bring back stats for you to look at. So you don't want to contribute to that, but would be happy to use online data?

Morecrimblecrumble · 24/03/2023 22:08

If being obese or underweight is so critical (which it can be, I fully understand) then simply gathering that data isn’t sufficient.. some parents will really need help making meaningful changes. Especially those in less privileged positions financially and educationally. The credibility all falls down if that is not in place along side the measurement scheme in my eyes, so unsurprising people opt out.

Ah yes, X percentage of 11 year olds are overweight/underweight.. let’s do.. nothing? to help change that. Not all families know what to do or have means to to so. (State) Schools are facing less and less and provision for Physical education and lower and lower food budgets.

Thats the same from birth though isn’t it- underweight infant? (as per the charts) Lots of weighing and weighing again and sucking teeth - but no meaningful feeding support… so on it goes. poor kids.

Trollsinmyeggbox · 24/03/2023 22:14

WeCome1 · 24/03/2023 19:17

Given the increase in obese children, what do you think they should do instead?

They've been doing it for donkeys years and if the numbers of overweight children is going up, it's not doing a blind bit of good anyway is it.

Lizzy1328 · 24/03/2023 22:20

HostessTrolley · 24/03/2023 19:28

My d was a gymnast, training several
times a week by year 6, and rather muscular. We got a letter saying she was obese.

She brought it up for discussion with her therapist when she was an inpatient in an eating disorder unit at the other side of the country, with a BMI of about 13, as a 17 year old.

At the time of the letter we didn't make a big deal about it at home. She was aware of it, and we talked about how flawed BMI is as a measure. But it clearly got inside her head to a degree. It didnt 'cause' her ED but it certainly didn't help.

Why did you even show it to her? Why didn't you protect your daughter? Need to know basis??

Morecrimblecrumble · 24/03/2023 22:20

Trollsinmyeggbox · 24/03/2023 22:14

They've been doing it for donkeys years and if the numbers of overweight children is going up, it's not doing a blind bit of good anyway is it.

EXACTLY.

LuciferRising · 24/03/2023 22:24

Morecrimblecrumble · 24/03/2023 22:20

EXACTLY.

Because parents respond believing their child is certainly not overweight. Just muscular, tall, more mature, carrying puppy fat.

Morecrimblecrumble · 24/03/2023 22:27

LuciferRising · 24/03/2023 22:24

Because parents respond believing their child is certainly not overweight. Just muscular, tall, more mature, carrying puppy fat.

Is there no chance that is could be that there is no provision to help reach a weight perceived as healthy? Even in some of the cases if not all?

TimandGinger · 24/03/2023 22:28

Bucketheadbucketbum · 24/03/2023 21:53

This

My neighbour says her son is 'rugby player build'. He's not, he's fat. 8 year olds who play rugby are usually skinny! My SIL says her 14 year old DS (seriously obese) has 'puppy fat'. There's just no point when people are this much in denial.

meditrina · 24/03/2023 22:31

Morecrimblecrumble · 24/03/2023 22:20

EXACTLY.

The data - whether, as in the past, showing underweight or, now, showing overweight - is neutral in this.

Whether the NHS, DoH or any other branch of government uses the data to the good, or chooses not to do, does not affect the value of a data set going back 70 years.

If the data set is eroded, then all chance of good policy decisions vanishes. Currently (and hopefully for the short term) we have a woeful bunch of scientifically illiterate ministers. That won't (I hope) always be the case

underneaththeash · 24/03/2023 22:42

meditrina · 24/03/2023 22:04

That's why they use BMI centiles scaled for children.

How do you think the charts get updated without good population data? The British data set is one of the best in the world.

@meditrina no you’re confused by how they measure. Under 18s are based in centiles, so how their weight differs from others at the same age. There isn’t an allowance for height just age. At one stage he was a little overweight, but I didn’t know how much as his age range’s height was way below his.
He’s still outside his range if I put in his correct date of birth, but we’ll within it, if I make him 2 years older.

PastaLaVistaBabee · 24/03/2023 22:43

Personally I think it's a massive waste of money. Most people with chubby kids know their kid is chubby without having to get a letter about it. Equally, most parents with skinny kids know their kid is skinny and don't need to be told. It's usually fairly obvious who the sky nny kids in the class are, and who is carrying a bit extra. I'm sure the parents have eyes and can see for themselves. I think the NHS would have better things to spend their money on than this ridiculous mass weigh-in. Bonkers IMO.

(my son was '50th centile' so average. Completely unenlightening and I can tell by looking at him there's no probs. My other son is quite thin (though eats more than his 'average' brother and does less exercise!!). He's not year 6 yet, but I won't need a letter to tell me his BMI is a little below average, as it's obvious. I can see. Totally don't get the point in these letters and this mass weigh-in)

WeCome1 · 24/03/2023 22:48

PastaLaVistaBabee · 24/03/2023 22:43

Personally I think it's a massive waste of money. Most people with chubby kids know their kid is chubby without having to get a letter about it. Equally, most parents with skinny kids know their kid is skinny and don't need to be told. It's usually fairly obvious who the sky nny kids in the class are, and who is carrying a bit extra. I'm sure the parents have eyes and can see for themselves. I think the NHS would have better things to spend their money on than this ridiculous mass weigh-in. Bonkers IMO.

(my son was '50th centile' so average. Completely unenlightening and I can tell by looking at him there's no probs. My other son is quite thin (though eats more than his 'average' brother and does less exercise!!). He's not year 6 yet, but I won't need a letter to tell me his BMI is a little below average, as it's obvious. I can see. Totally don't get the point in these letters and this mass weigh-in)

Many recent studies have found that parents can’t tell if their own child is overweight.
eg
https://www.contemporarypediatrics.com/view/child-overweight-parents-dont-see-what-you-do

Is this child overweight? Parents don’t see what you do!

Most parents of young children who are overweight or obese think their child’s weight is “just right,” according to a study conducted in Sweden. However, as their child grows older, more parents recognize when their child is too heavy-especially if he...

https://www.contemporarypediatrics.com/view/child-overweight-parents-dont-see-what-you-do

notafruit · 24/03/2023 22:55

For those saying I am incorrect, It must be fairly new that they include height. It was only a couple of years ago that my friend had a lot of trouble as her almost 6ft at age 11 child was classed as obese, despite being like a bean pole. She fought to get the "diagnosis" (can't think of a better word) removed from his records. Maybe some health authorities are a little behind the times.

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