So here's the situation.
I've recently had a new phone and logged into my period tracker app, for some reason it reset my monthly cycle to 28 days.
We had unprotected sex around a week before my period was due, as my cycle is roughly 32-33 days, but I thought it was only a couple days due to the app resetting.
Regardless of this it should have been fine as I would have still ovulated the week before. But my period is now late and I have soreness in my breasts and cramps, plus other symptoms.
We recently spoke about accidental pregnancy and how it wouldn't be ideal or the best time but we would probably make it work.
Last night he was saying if I was pregnant to get an abortion, I said no I told you if it happened I wouldn't abort and now he is pissed off at me because if I am it would ruin our holiday plans.
His reasons, I would be due shortly after we go away. Plus the due date would be in December so birthdays would be a bit crap.
Also financially things would be tight and stressful.
He did say initially I told him it was fine and misled him and I said ok sorry I got the dates wrong, plus I never said there was no risk I said there was a very low chance but it was unlikely.
Also he was very pushy saying I would have to get an abortion.
Now I'm pissed and think he is being selfish and I said he was giving me mixed signals saying it wouldn't be ideal but he also didn't seem fully against it.
Also I told him before I wouldn't get an abortion if it happened and he didn't put up a fight then.
Am I being the unreasonable one?