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Feelingcrazy123 · 23/03/2023 07:16

Back in September I stumbled across messages between my husband and a girl he used to know years ago when I was sending myself some pictures from him phone to mine.
There were rumours between him and her years ago when me and him we together.
He had hid and deleted messages so I have no idea what they were saying. He said they bumped into each other one day and talked from there - nothing else to it.
I was looking through hos pictures on his phone the other night and found screen shots of their messages he had taken. They look pretty dodgy - “ you’ve taken your wife to where you met me”, “you’re messaging me when your on a date night with your wife”, “I’ll pop over now” and a photo of the local lake say “have you turned into a ghost now?”. Some of these messages where from JULY 22.
I had tried to message her to get her side of the story when I approached him about it again but he had messaged her to give her a heads up I had seen screen shots. She has blocked me on all social media and they were taking about it over insta.
Is it just me or does this all look dodgy? I’m 10 weeks pregnant (which we planned) with baby number 2.

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snitzelvoncrumb · 23/03/2023 07:19

Yes. Sorry. I would talk to him about it. Let him know you are upset and don’t feel like you can trust him.

snitzelvoncrumb · 23/03/2023 07:21

If he plays it down ask him if a few text messages are worth risking his marriage.

Xarrie · 23/03/2023 09:44

Very dodgy. Sorry.

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