It’s not how the situation is, it’s how you feel about it apparently. If you say you’re too sad to work then that should be accepted and generous benefits given, according to people on MN
But it doesn't work like that. This is just what benefit bashers like to peddle online and among themselves.
You can't just decide you're too sad to work or just feeling down and they'll say 'Right, here's some benefit money for you. Hope you feel better whenever'.
There's a process to go through and medical evidence to produce. Even still, many genuine people don't get any support after doing all that.