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You've had a roast dinner at 2pm. Would you want to eat again before bed?

574 replies

Laiste · 05/03/2023 17:19

Big roast with all the trimmings - pork with crackling, 3 veg, Yorkshire puds, stuffing, gravy, bread to dip ect.

Would you want anything before bed, apart from a cup or tea or two?

YABU - yes i'd want/need to eat again.
YANBU - nope, that would do me for the rest of the day.

OP posts:
Owlatnight · 05/03/2023 21:05

Would always want a third meal. Would prefer to eat before 2pm for ma n meal too so less likely to snack

TortolaParadise · 05/03/2023 21:08

yes, a crumpet with pate, crisps, hot chocolate maybe some fruit.

Fizbosshoes · 05/03/2023 21:08

Zone2NorthLondon · 05/03/2023 20:59

it’s mumsnet,multiple posters will emphatically say no they’d not eat again . Just Tap water & dry crackers

in regular life, if you had a dinner at 2pm you’d eat again 7ish. Given it’s 5 hour after dinner.

mumsnet life,there will be selection of little non filling snacks such as crackers, a slither of lean meat or a morsel of something low starch

Gosh if I'd had a big roast at 2pm today, I probably couldn't eat again til at least Easter, probably Christmas...

Iamtheonwandlonely · 05/03/2023 21:09

Had a roast about 2 but it was only small.
Beef,roasters,peas and gravy.
Just using up what I had before I go shopping tomorrow.

I had some toast and my kids had some pasta.

I think it depends on the size of your meal.

Reddahlias · 05/03/2023 21:11

slithytoveisascientist · 05/03/2023 20:54

Yes I'd be having a usual full dinner about 7pm, why wouldn't I?

Hmm because breakfast and a large late lunch might provide enough calories? I guess it depends on how active you are - if you go for a run or long walk, you may well need some more food, but if you're at home sitting on the sofa perhaps two meals a day are sufficient?

GoldenLaurel · 05/03/2023 21:11

HAHAH, I'd want to eat again by 3!

CrotchetyCrocheting · 05/03/2023 21:12

I don't eat breakfast so that would be my first meal of the day so yeah I would absolutely eat later on. I don't tend to eat enormous meals that would make me feel full for the rest of the day though. I would just have a normal size roast not a 'big' one with bread. I like eating and food but am not a fan of stuffing myself silly, more of a snacker.

NCSQ · 05/03/2023 21:13

I might not feel like it if it was a big helping of roast dinner. But I would still eat something light because otherwise I would probably get hungry later (like 9pm) and wouldn't sleep well if I went to bed hungry.

Ozcando · 05/03/2023 21:13

Yes. 2pm to 7-8 am is a long time without food!

WedonttalkaboutMaureen · 05/03/2023 21:15

Jeez @LuckySantangelo35 what's your investment in this thread? So much questioning of others replies Confused And sardines, bleurgh, no thanks.

We had beef, roasties, carrots, broccoli, red cabbage and gravy around 2pm today.
Long walk with dog and then some house chores. I've literally just sat down with a pot of M&S salad as my 9pm evening snack and thought I'd have a browse on MN. So yes I would eat something light again!

AnnaKorine · 05/03/2023 21:16

I might be okay but the children and DH would definitely be asking where ‘dinner’ was. Although that would be a sandwich and some side veg. Sounds like Xmas where a cheese board is murdered later but that’s factoring in booze.

OriginalUsername2 · 05/03/2023 21:16

Boxe · 05/03/2023 17:21

I don’t get why a roast had to be a bigger than usual meal. Surely if you ate any meal at 2pm, you’d want something later in the day?

When I have a roast, it’s the same amount of food as I’d have of any other type of food.

If we have a roast, it’s 6 inches high.

GoldenLaurel · 05/03/2023 21:17

Honestly sometimes I read threads like this and wonder if I'm extremely weird for having a big appetite. I don't eat to it because feeling bad about myself is worse than the hunger but I can't be doing with all this anti-food rhetoric.

AngelicInnocent · 05/03/2023 21:18

Growing up my DM used to do a big roast for 1pm every week and then Sunday tea was served at 6pm. This would be a sandwich on a bread bun, never bread, with a savoury item such as a small sausage roll or slice of pork pie and a sweet item, usually a piece of cake or a portion of jelly and ice cream.

My life isn't like that so if we have a roast, it's in the evening.

NewPapaGuinea · 05/03/2023 21:19

Depends if I was hungry or not.

TommyShelby · 05/03/2023 21:21

@Weallhaveavoice after a roast, you get a slice of bread, and put it on your plate to soak up all the left over bits of gravy. Make sure you get both sides. Oooh it’s bloody lovely. When I was a kid, it was the only reason for me to eat all my veg - so I’d have room to put the slice of bread on at the end! 😂

Weallhaveavoice · 05/03/2023 21:23

TommyShelby · 05/03/2023 21:21

@Weallhaveavoice after a roast, you get a slice of bread, and put it on your plate to soak up all the left over bits of gravy. Make sure you get both sides. Oooh it’s bloody lovely. When I was a kid, it was the only reason for me to eat all my veg - so I’d have room to put the slice of bread on at the end! 😂

Excellent😁
sounds like a clever parent trick to get the veg eaten.
wish I’d known about that one
will have lovely white slice ready next Sunday.

AngelicInnocent · 05/03/2023 21:27

For those interested, the bread at the end of a meal is an Irish take on a French custom.

In France, food would be served on a board called a trencher. In Ireland they changed it to a crust of bread in the bottom of the dish when they served stews etc which, like England, was predominantly what the poor ate. You ate the stew and if you were still hungry, the trencher underneath.

When the Irish workforce came to England, the custom came with them. The hardest workers were thought to have the biggest appetites and to be known as a fine trencher an (Someone who always ate the trencher as well as the rest) was a real mark of respect

Reddahlias · 05/03/2023 21:29

When I have a roast, it’s the same amount of food as I’d have of any other type of food.

When we have a roast it tends to be a large meal with lots of sides - vegetables, roast potatoes, bread, cheeses followed by dessert and coffees. It takes a couple of hours. There's no way I can or want to eat anything else for the rest of the day.

Weallhaveavoice · 05/03/2023 21:33

AngelicInnocent · 05/03/2023 21:27

For those interested, the bread at the end of a meal is an Irish take on a French custom.

In France, food would be served on a board called a trencher. In Ireland they changed it to a crust of bread in the bottom of the dish when they served stews etc which, like England, was predominantly what the poor ate. You ate the stew and if you were still hungry, the trencher underneath.

When the Irish workforce came to England, the custom came with them. The hardest workers were thought to have the biggest appetites and to be known as a fine trencher an (Someone who always ate the trencher as well as the rest) was a real mark of respect

My parents were part of that Irish workforce.
But never heard of it, grandad didn’t do it either.
not rich, very poor,
Ive have heard of the trencher bread bowl thing you describe tho.

Hibernatalie · 05/03/2023 21:35

Yes, I'd have something small like cheese and biscuits or a toastie.

Reddahlias · 05/03/2023 21:37

When people say they have something small like cheese, what do they mean? A chunk of cheddar cheese? A slice of Emmental cheese? On its own?!

FabFitFifties · 05/03/2023 21:39

Up until my forties, I would absolutely have needed a later tea/supper. I was very active and thin. Now, in my fifties, I would just have a little snack.

WaddleAway · 05/03/2023 21:41

GoldenLaurel · 05/03/2023 21:17

Honestly sometimes I read threads like this and wonder if I'm extremely weird for having a big appetite. I don't eat to it because feeling bad about myself is worse than the hunger but I can't be doing with all this anti-food rhetoric.

You’re not alone. I love good food. One of life’s great pleasures. I’m also pretty active, so I get hungry. For some reason, there are people on here who think liking food, and getting hungry, is some sort of moral failing.

Johnisafckface · 05/03/2023 21:42

Absolutely. If I didn’t I’d be starving by midnight. On thanksgiving we eat arou around 1/2 and we definitely have another plate of food later in the evening even if it’s just a small serving.