Can i ask how housework is split in your house
I live with 3 other adults and 3 children.
adult 1 had been ill and hurt there foot but now recovered. The other two don't lift a finger and it all falls to me.
Adult 1 moans it isn't done correctly yet never bothers to do it for himself or change what has been done
An example of the other two adults. Have a bowl or food leave it on the side for someone else move and clean up. Other adult makes everyone do it for her including children
If i question this then I get told we make the mess so we should clean it up. Yet the food they eat is there mess so surely they should clean it away.
I know adult one has been poorly but he never did anything before his illness and how he is recovered so he could help but he dosent
AIBU to ask for help with it as its getting to much for me to do on my own woth very little gratitude or an offer of help.
Maybe it's there way of doing things but my way was differnt. Mum and dad shared things as mum had ms.