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To wonder how to deal with archenemy in the workplace?

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Keyansier · 18/02/2023 17:12

Just canvassing for general opinions and wonder whether people think this is an overreactive response or justified on my behalf. A few weeks ago a new guy started at my workplace and he is, to put it bluntly, one of the most horrid people I have ever met in my entire life. The worst thing is, I’ve been lumbered with the task of training him up so have to talk and listen to him all day. He is abrasive, obnoxious, doesn’t seem to like to listen to anyone else but yet loves the sound of his own voice, is always right and never wrong like doesn’t admit whenever he’s made a mistake, tells jokes and then laughs at his own jokes even though they’re not even funny, is abrupt, condescending and sometimes just out and out plain downright rude. I am getting to the point of thinking of making an excuse as to why I can’t train him any longer. I have started thinking of him as my archenemy. He is consistently draining.

Is there anything I could legitimately say to get him trained by someone else without it sounding like I just don’t like him that I could put forward as a plausible reason to management without it looking bad on me? I also feel a bit intimidated by him. Has anyone else dealt with a similar scenario or have any general advice on dealing with something like this?

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Stupidpeoplesuck · 19/02/2023 23:25

@Rogue1001MNer i commented before reading the thread (more fool me) but massively appreciative of your summary on previous posts!

Rogue1001MNer · 19/02/2023 23:39

Aw shucks @Stupidpeoplesuck

Thank you

Good user name

InelegantAndWild · 19/02/2023 23:41

Offer him some chicken chow mein and then ask him how old he is.

Starseeking · 19/02/2023 23:58

It sounds like an over reaction; you're there to do a job, not be best friends with all your colleagues.

Get on with training your colleague as any adult would, and don't think about him being your arch enemy (which is an odd description of someone who is practically a stranger, if ever there was one).

sonicmum2002 · 20/02/2023 00:52

I haven't read any of your previous posts, but I can relate to this one. I have had troublesome colleagues. No helpful advice, but I'm sorry about some of the comments you've had.

echt · 20/02/2023 03:39

An arch enemy is what Sherlock Holmes had in the person of Moriarty.

You have a tiresome arse of a trainee, but as the mentor you have to suck it up and get over not liking him and stick to how he performs at work. Much good advice has already been given upthread.

WorkHardPlayHard1 · 25/02/2023 14:21

I get your style of writing! 🤓😜🙌

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