Name changed as this is incredibly outing.
DH has had MH issues for a while. It all came to a head in June. He was diagnosed with psychosis, probably cannabis induced. He maintains he has a very specific physical problem (something he knows in depth because of his job, so no one can contradict him). He has been seen by many specialists/consultants and it was agreed the problem isn’t physical. He was sectioned for 6 weeks and then released because he ‘wasn’t a danger to himself or others’. They can't force medication.
The kids and I moved out in September because the environment was not suitable for them (he was verbally and physically abusive in front of them). He completely refuses to accept the diagnosis and has rejected all treatment. We are exactly where we were on day 1 and I feel we have tried everything.
I’m struggling on by myself with 3 small children - logistically, financially, emotionally. PILs are lovely and supportive but the load is of course on me.
DH hasn’t worked in a long time, something has to change very soon or I won’t be able to support me and the kids. We need to sell the family home but he doesn’t want to. So divorce might be the only way.
I obviously don’t feel particularly good about it, he is unwell after all. But he is also an addict and by not accepting medication he’s depriving his family of his presence and support, hindering progress and making a return to normal life impossible.
I think I know what I have to do. It’s been 8 months and absolutely nothing has changed. I also need to look after my own mental health which at this rate will be the next thing down the pan.
Any advice welcome.