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Eastenders

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loupielou1 · 15/02/2023 00:06

So someone wrote how Denise needs to grow up as she's a grown woman and just do the normal adult thing and stop with this Ravi nonsense etc. well it really got on my nerves and I replied with....

Jack isn’t giving her the attention and someone else is 🤷🏻‍♀️ all he asks for Denise is to be there for his children etc. she has tried to have his attention and he gives excuses after excuses. He uses her as a baby sitter! So someone else is giving her some attention and yes it’s bad but it’s bloody sexy and something she’s been longing for. Ravi is a bad egg but he’s giving her attention and she’s emotionally and sexually desperate. I wouldn’t blame her if she goes through with it but I know she will feel so much quilt. But I bet if this was the other way around and she wasn’t giving Jack the attention and using him as a baby sitter for her young son and then he was getting attention from Sam or some other woman - people would nt be as critical 🤷🏻‍♀️ (they’d say it was Sam’s fault) 🤦🏻‍♀️

Am I be unreasonable here? Am I the only one who thinks like this? I know it's only a soap but these things do happen in real life? I do think men get away with things more than women. I actually think Jack is borderline narcissistic here and Denise is being naive here but she needs to get out as it's quite toxic.

Again I know it's a soap but it's in real life a but this is what women deal with

OP posts:
CarpeVitam · 15/02/2023 00:09

As you said, it's a soap 🤷‍♀️

heartbroken22 · 15/02/2023 00:12

Totally agree with you. She's had her confidence broken and is very vulnerable being let down by Jack so many times. Then having Sam constantly there. I'd be happy if she was shagging Ravi from the chandeliers left right and centre. She needs a man giving her the attention and respect she deserves and not Neanderthal Jack treating her like dirt!

CallieQ · 15/02/2023 00:37

Too late she kissed him!
No one is ever allowed a happy marriage in EE

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