Am I going crazy

[Bfg11]

hi guys,

I’ve been on this page since my babies were in my tummy and born, there on since! Now 7 and 8 girls.

Me and hubby have been together since 2010 and married since 2015. Lovely marriage.

Things have been a bit hard in the relationship for a good few months now. Just the usual married life, nothing to write home about.

Anyway, this is where you guys come in......

Last night we were both laying on the sofa, both on our phones whilst watching easy TV. When I went to turn the TV down I seen him pressing ‘delete’

The delete looked to be at the bottom of the page in a big red rectangle shape/banner.

I asked him what he was deleting and he said ‘ah just super6’ I know it’s not that because I use this app myself.

I was so tired at the time not to question but thinking of it more tonight.

My question is, for my fellow lovely ladies who are ok but need a little reassurance, does anyone know a website or app with a rectangle, red, delete button, which is scrolled down to touch!???

Is there a backstory as to why you’re so invested in what he’s deleting?

Not something I would get worked up about to be honest.

Absolutely no back story!

I’ve never been cheated on as far as I know! He’s a very trustworthy person and would never question him.

it’s just that his answer was ‘super6’ and I know it’s not that!

Hense the worry or wonder.

I think you’re making something out of nothing, why is it an issue for him to delete something on a website/his phone?

You sound paranoid, is there a reason you don’t trust him?

I was casually asking him.

it was the fact he said ‘super6’ which I know is a lie, that’s causes me to question!

Otherwise I’d never question him! Nor he would me.

To be direct though,

All I was asking for, was it someone knew an app/website that had this feature.

women power and all that. Girls helping out girls. Whatever the answer be.

Ok. You smell bullshit and you should call him out on bullshit.

Don’t pretend like you’re ok. Tell him that you are feeling insecure about how he was deleting things off his phone and you weren’t reassured by his responses.

Be prepared for being the crazy paranoid wife, but I’d be asking to see my husband’s app download list.

You know, check his purchased list for anything dodgy.

My husband wouldn’t care if it made me feel better, even if I did find something had issue with.

No secrets.

If you can get to his phone you can check a full list of downloaded apps, even if he's deleted something it should still be on there

Could it be some sort of valentine's surprise, or perhaps he is innocently on a forum he wants to keep private?