Hi, ok so…
I feel bad that I’ve upset my best friends for not inviting them to my DDs birthday party. They don’t have children and I’ve only invited her friends from nursery or friends of mine that have children that she hangs around with (play dates etc).
I stupidly chose a tiny venue so there is a huge lack of space. I’m pretty sure I can’t even comfortably fit everyone I have invited!
We went small for 2 reasons:
- last year we invited loads that didn’t turn up
- I’m 39 weeks pregnant and conscious that I may not make it to the party so didn’t want to spend a bomb and have to cancel at last minute.
I haven’t even invited any family!
I don’t want to upset them as they have been amazing friends and are great with DD. But I had to draw the line somewhere.
AIBU to just invite people with children?