Hi my sons 11.5 years old . Severe adhd with autism and tic disorder accompanied by very very challenging behaviours. These include threatening me with a knife and kitchen scissors . He’s also sexually inappropriate. Furthermore we have biting , pulling hair , pinching , kicking , hitting etc . I’ve just agreed for social worker to put his assessment out to the placement team for residential . It’s breaking my heart but he needs more than I can give as a single parent . He’s 2:1 in school , and out in the community with carers . Yet with me it’s just me . Am I bad have I made the wrong choice . He’s got an appointment with psychiatrist tomorrow , well I have via teams . She’s never met him , fortunately school are attending as he’s the same there behaviourally . I feel like I’m betraying my son but I can’t live with the behaviours 24/7 anymore