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Would you find this text inappropriate?

35 replies

Irishwolfie · 04/02/2023 19:07

would you be upset if your partner received these text messages from their ex?

”I wish I could call you whenever I wanted to, it hurts that I can’t”

”I think it was a mistake to drive back to my place so early, I should have stayed like you said”

OP posts:
VariantHela · 04/02/2023 20:22

Yes, massively.

sleephelp2022 · 04/02/2023 20:29

Woahhh no. Bang out of order on so many levels and yeah that also goes to your partners response.

RED FLAGS

skippymcflippy · 04/02/2023 22:24

I think it was a mistake to drive back to my place so early, I should have stayed like you said

What's the back story on this one????
He told her she should stay. And she didn't and now says it was a mistake to drive back to her place. So why was he telling her to stay, where was this etc.

The first one could be just an ex who can't let go and is struggling with the end of the relationship but the second one sounds more dubious.

How long have you been together and how long is it since they split up?

shallibuyahouse · 04/02/2023 22:31

I would like to know the back story behind the second comment.

AllOfThemWitches · 04/02/2023 22:43

Don't be a mug.

Irishwolfie · 05/02/2023 15:26

shallibuyahouse · 04/02/2023 22:31

I would like to know the back story behind the second comment.

They met up in her home town because he was there for his friends wedding. After the wedding he text her and went over to hers to catch up. He told me all this. I didn’t have a problem that he went to see her, I had a problem that he left at 6 in the morning. He text me saying he was leaving.

he doesn’t drink (religious) so I don’t think anything happened or whatever but it’s obvious they wanted it to.

OP posts:
Stomacharmeleon · 05/02/2023 16:24

Not that religious though clearly....

SunnyCoco · 05/02/2023 22:10

He went to a wedding then after the wedding he went to her house until 6am???

delayedtrauma · 05/02/2023 22:35

They had sex op. He's not hanging out at her house til 6 having cups of tea.

xprincessxjanetx · 05/02/2023 22:53

Yes, without question.

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