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Niceness

10 replies

OldCow1 · 25/01/2023 23:18

People are horrible on line ( not everyone , of course) How common is that? Are people nastier online in general

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youshouldnthaveasked · 25/01/2023 23:19

Anonymity and the ability to hide behind a screen

OldCow1 · 25/01/2023 23:19

So post was that in real life, people.are generally very pleasant candidates, kind with me

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Cratos · 25/01/2023 23:20

Yes that is true for some people.

pzyck · 25/01/2023 23:20

It's kind of obvious why. People are often anonymous online, or at least if they're not, face no imminent physical threat for anything they choose to say.

m00rfarm · 25/01/2023 23:20

Sometimes I read something that REALLY riles me. I type something that could be construed as nasty, read it, then (generally) delete it and move on. My short term memory is terrible right now, so much of the time I forget I have deleted it, and then feel terrible until I remember that it was not posted in the first place ...

OldCow1 · 25/01/2023 23:22

Moorfarm , to see, that to me is kind

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Walkacrossthesand · 25/01/2023 23:23

Anonymity brings out the worst in (some) people - keyboard warriors, liars and deceivers on online dating, scammers.

OldCow1 · 25/01/2023 23:24

You dong just say what the xxx you like to people without considering the effect first ( of the payback

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youshouldnthaveasked · 25/01/2023 23:44

To be honest though, I have found a lot of very kind caring people online. These are Generally in Facebook groups of a particular interest or similar people. I’ve had to deal with a lot of traumatic events in the last couple of years and have preferred to ask for help, support or reassurance from these strangers than some people in real life

IncompleteSenten · 26/01/2023 08:54

Anonymity reveals you.

Face to face you consider the consequences. Being nice means you are thought well of. Liked.

When that is not a consideration, well 🤷 you see how people would be in real life if they took off their mask.

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