Why are men mad? Pls help

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i just found a message on my partners phone trying to meet a random (low grade onlyfans girl) I so low grade as in basically a normal girl as she doesn’t seem to have many followers and just posts mugshots of her vagina.

I’m not even upset just so confused like whyyyyyy? In the last year we’ve bought a house had a baby literally a few weeks ago he spent 4000 buying a new bed/ mattress and a new sofa.

I just really can’t understand it? Why invest in our home if you’re willing to risk it all. He loves our baby and also has always said doesn’t want him to grow up in a broken home as his mum and dad split up before he could remember.

I just really don’t get it, technically he hasn’t cheated just tried? I don’t know if he would’ve actually gone through with it but I really don’t know what to do? how to even bring it up.

He's trying to meet up with her? That's cheating in my book.

He wants to cheat.
move on.

Oh god! Is he having some sort of crisis in his life?

I do sort of think it’s cheating too

Ewwwww

Raise your standards and throw this one back whilst your baby is young enough to not know any different. Keep the furniture.

It won't get better. He doesn't love you or your baby trying to go porridge stomping in some skanks vag. Sorry.

Maybe he isn't as into you as you thought?

That IS cheating - I’m sorry you’re going through this, and as a man I apologise and promise we’re not all that bad.

Very poor show, and even worse timing!

He didn't think he'd get caught.

Personally, I'd get rid but I have zero tolerance for such twattery. I'd object to our family unit meaning so little to him that he'd risk it all for a fanny pic.