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To think this is the fairest way to share center parcs cost?

525 replies

needabreak5 · 23/01/2023 18:31

Am I right that this is the best way to split the cost of £1500 for a 4 bed lodge:

Room 1 - family 1: 2 adults and 1 DC (18 months) pays £375
Room 2 and 3 - family 2: 2 adults and 2 DC (age 4 and 6) pays £750
Room 4 - family 3 (parents/in-laws of adults and grandparents of all DC) pays £375

please let me know if you’d split differently?

OP posts:
Abouttimemum · 23/01/2023 20:42

In our family we’d just split it 3 ways most likely

Cantstandbullshitanymore · 23/01/2023 20:42

needabreak5 · 23/01/2023 19:15

CP will not allow that unfortunately. They will count everyone in at check in.

Well than answers tha questions didn’t it. The need for a 4th room is because you have a family of 4 so why should others subsidize the price of the extra room?

CP will charge room price for a second room not half of a quarter because you’re the same family and others are using the grounds etc.

horriblehistorian · 23/01/2023 20:46

Absolutely fair. It's simple mathematics because the cost is split per room not head. I would not be happy to cover someone else's 1/3 of a room

SlatternIsMyMiddleName · 23/01/2023 20:48

I would divide by 3.

rookiemere · 23/01/2023 20:48

As you're family 2 I suggest you go with the room split, otherwise what happens cost wise when family one no longer wants or can share with their DC.

It either becomes a disproportionately costly holiday for Granny and Grandad, or you have the existing structure in place that people pay for the rooms they use.

If it's any consolation they'll then be paying for 2 rooms same as you, but only one DC.

Mummysruined · 23/01/2023 20:49

So if everyone is in agreement why are you asking on here?

Alwaystheplusone · 23/01/2023 20:50

Obviously it should be split equally but it’s Centre Parcs so maybe save your money and don’t bother

maddy68 · 23/01/2023 20:50

Divide my the bedrooms. Equal split. Why are family 2 paying so much more?

Nixynic · 23/01/2023 20:51

As I said originally - I think the beds are such a small part of the experience and only a fraction of what you are paying to be at Center Parcs. In a 4 bedroom lodge I stayed at in CP we had a games room, sauna, large living area, hot tub, outdoor patio area, a private parking space for each family’s car. I personally wouldn’t pay 50% of the holiday when I was one of three families staying there. To me the beds are not what you are paying all that money for - it’s everything else.
I would prefer to stay in separate lodges, where I could get a 2 bed lodge for a family of 4 for a lot less money.

ChateauxNeufDePoop · 23/01/2023 20:51

I've holidayed in situations like this on both sides of the numerical "advantage" and we've always done per party, so three ways in this instance. I don't see it as paying per room as you're looking for accommodation that suits your party size.

Ottil · 23/01/2023 20:54

ChateauxNeufDePoop · 23/01/2023 20:51

I've holidayed in situations like this on both sides of the numerical "advantage" and we've always done per party, so three ways in this instance. I don't see it as paying per room as you're looking for accommodation that suits your party size.

Exactly this. If three families decide they want to go on holiday together, then they are a holidaying unit, so to speak. You're not 3 families holidaying separately in one lodge.

3 way split for me.

ButterCrackers · 23/01/2023 20:57

Give the children staying costs to their respective families (if it costs more to have a child staying) and then divide the rest by the adults as they are all in double rooms

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/01/2023 21:05

The other thing that occurs to me, is that surely the 4 and 6 yo children are the main reason for the (more expensive) choice of CP as a destination. The 18 month old won’t get that much out of it comparatively, and the GPS are presumably going along to be with the grandchildren?

JudgeRudy · 23/01/2023 21:05

Just curious but question to all those that think the grandparents and smaller family should subsidise Family 2.....

If it was slightly different relationships would that affect your view? So
Room 1 2 x female friend
Room 2 2 x male friend (1 just finished uni unemployed)
Room 3 1 couple with baby (mim SAH parent)
Room 4 1 female and her 14 year old daughter (shitty bunk beds)

LivelyBlake · 23/01/2023 21:07

I would prefer to stay in separate lodges, where I could get a 2 bed lodge for a family of 4 for a lot less money.

A 2 bed lodge costs £1000, so £250 more.

Teateaandmoretea · 23/01/2023 21:07

Personally I’d pay the 1k for a 1 bed if the difference was so small. All those people rammed in will be a nightmare.

Teateaandmoretea · 23/01/2023 21:08

2 bed even

gogohmm · 23/01/2023 21:15

I would suggest 30% 40% 30% to take into account the 2 rooms but also that you are paying for the other facilities too, and that room one needs specific dates

EasterIsland · 23/01/2023 21:15

but I'd be thinking "ouch!" if I was in family 2.

But if you split it by three, and still gave Family 2 two rooms, how is that anywhere near fair? Each family pays £500 but Family 2 get 2 rooms??

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 23/01/2023 21:21

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/01/2023 21:05

The other thing that occurs to me, is that surely the 4 and 6 yo children are the main reason for the (more expensive) choice of CP as a destination. The 18 month old won’t get that much out of it comparatively, and the GPS are presumably going along to be with the grandchildren?

This is a good point. Do people go to CP without kids?!

RewildingAmbridge · 23/01/2023 21:22

So you're the bigger family and you're happy to pay per room, so pay it?
It seems to be £350 more 4 bed (1500) vs 3 bed (1150) so either way you are paying either £750 or £725 not something I'd worry about.
Also your older children will definitely use more of the activities/facilities than an 18 month old, so that doesn't seem relevant in a more equal spilt.
When the toddler is older and the DC all share a room, split it per head, for now leave it be and pay per room.

pocketvenuss · 23/01/2023 21:24

Renlea · 23/01/2023 18:38

If people are happy to pay the same price per room yes.

I'd prob offer a little less to the ones who aren't a family of 4:

Room 1: £350
Room 2: £400
Room 3: £400
Room 4: £350

That's even worse? Why is family 2 paying £800 for 2 rooms?

Newlifestartingatlast · 23/01/2023 21:24

TidyDancer · 23/01/2023 18:39

How much extra is it costing to have four bedrooms instead of three? The family group requiring two rooms could pay the difference. Alternatively, give each adult a value of 2 and each child a value of 1 and divide the cost by the total number then each group pays their share accordingly.

If group two are dictating the arrangement I'd be less likely to agree to subsidise them if I was going.

Yep I agree- kids go half price. Total up costs and divide based on those half prices.
family with 2 kids will end up paying more still - but not the massive burden

it isn’t, as people say, just about beds and bedrooms - there are I assume other things in the costs

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 23/01/2023 21:26

There’s never a fair way to split things like this. I think it would be fair for family 2 to pay a bit more but not half of the holiday. I think counting children as a half is the fairest way so:

family 1: 2.5= £500
family 2: 3= £600
family 3: 2= £400

pocketvenuss · 23/01/2023 21:28

needabreak5 · 23/01/2023 19:10

So just checked same dates and

3 bed lodge is £1150 (£1149)
2 bed lodge is £1000 (£999)

So all families pay £333 each. Family taking two rooms pays the additional £150.

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