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Would you have the Operation

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Preparedforjobnottolast · 23/01/2023 16:24

Hi,

I have been offered an operation following if I get all clear from Neurologist.

I don’t feel any pain in the neck and can move it freely enough to the point I’m thinking what, I thought it was back pain I had.

A recent MRI scan showed lesion on the neck so they have said they can do op and cut at front of neck, remove a disc and that stops any progression further down spine, but it is high risk. They did mention something starting with a T but I can’t remember.

I just got upset as they said it won’t cure the numb tummy when I certainly asked. (this remains the mystery to them and me) I don’t have roll on floor but pains but it’s like someone strangling me in the stomach. I was kind of hoping it may be the Saxenda but by tomorrow morning Saxenda is out of my system.

I was my parents only capable of walking child (brother had a freak accident and is fully wheelchair bound himself) and I intended to be the one looking after them when time came.

If the Op works then might I be able to leave hospital quicker, if the admirable old girls on my ward can start physio after I’m thinking there’s hope and it is do-able.

I maybe getting rid of the diabetes tag which has made me smile.

Don’t know if I need a handhold or WWYD

I also have work wanting to call, they know I’m in hospital, best to tell them everything?

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bloodywhitecat · 23/01/2023 16:53

Did they go through the risks vs the benefits with you? What are the chances of failure? Have you asked if there is a nurse specialist who can help you to go through your options with you?

Preparedforjobnottolast · 23/01/2023 19:20

Thank you for responding, there was a nurse with specialist nurse on lanyard with the consultant, just they talk so fast and I’m afraid I interrupted just eager to get rid of the horrible numb sensation. They just said I’m young to get this problem.

I would have liked my parents present but I should be a big girl and they always appear never timed when the folks are around. They have since visited and I asked them, at which point Mum said she briefed my work/it’s not totally a cold call tomorrow as GP said hospital are responsible for any subsequent fit note.

Just got more time to think ahead of neurology getting here and compose some questions. I haven’t looked into neck complaints but think I better.

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