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Scream - 14 y/o DD

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ParkingPermitWoes · 23/01/2023 10:35

Would you let your DD watch Scream at friend's sleepover. She's nearly 15 (it is a 15+) but she isn't overly mature and gets scared easily! She hasn't watched any scary films before and so it's a tough one to know whether she should go and watch it or not.

She's desperate to go and I can't remember how scary it is (I was terrified in my 20s!). WWYD?

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ReamsOfCheese · 23/01/2023 10:36

Nope not a chance.

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 23/01/2023 10:37

No. And i say that as a fan of slasher flicks.

waveyc · 23/01/2023 10:38

Nope

Slowingdownagain · 23/01/2023 10:38

It's really scary. But I don't know, I watched it around that age, loved horror films. when I was a teenager

My first horror film was horric too - I watched it with my aunt at about 11. That seems like a very strange decision by her in hindsight.

Emmamoo89 · 23/01/2023 10:38

Hell no

pebbles3004 · 23/01/2023 10:39

No. I watched this when I was 12 at a sleepover and it gave me nightmares for months!

Flameshame · 23/01/2023 10:39

Yes, come on everyone. Best part of being a teenager was watching horror movies and getting shit scared with your friends. Plus Scream is ‘fun’ horror, it’s not like torture porn.

waveyc · 23/01/2023 10:40

For me I don't find it scary but more violent/gruesome

PeekAtYou · 23/01/2023 10:43

If she's easily scared then of course not. Do you remember Drew Barrymore home alone and getting a call at the start of the film?

If she's intent on going has she considered watching it beforehand as it might be a bit less scary second time round because she'll know what happens ?

ParkingPermitWoes · 23/01/2023 10:44

PeekAtYou · 23/01/2023 10:43

If she's easily scared then of course not. Do you remember Drew Barrymore home alone and getting a call at the start of the film?

If she's intent on going has she considered watching it beforehand as it might be a bit less scary second time round because she'll know what happens ?

Yes this is the bit I remember and was so scared by!!

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AllOfThemWitches · 23/01/2023 10:44

If she wanted to, yes. I watched it while still in primary school at a sleepover. She's nearly 15. 🤷‍♀️

PeekAtYou · 23/01/2023 10:45

Flameshame · 23/01/2023 10:39

Yes, come on everyone. Best part of being a teenager was watching horror movies and getting shit scared with your friends. Plus Scream is ‘fun’ horror, it’s not like torture porn.

She's never watched a scary movie before and is easily scared.
Usually people have watched 12A horror by the time they get to the 15/18 stuff so they know what to expect in terms of scary films.

Frabbits · 23/01/2023 10:46

Watching films you aren't quite old enough for is teenage right of passage.

Scream is comedy-horror rather than being anything nasty.

thunderandsunshine01 · 23/01/2023 10:46

If she’s nearly 15 then she’s old enough to know it’s not real. Of course, like PP said it was one of the best bits about being a teenager!

NotAnotherBathBomb · 23/01/2023 10:48

Are we talking about the same film? Scream has jumps but is very exaggerated horror, it's almost comical

Renlea · 23/01/2023 10:48

Yes definitely. If she wants to close her eyes she can.

AllOfThemWitches · 23/01/2023 10:48

Some very precious parents here! 😆

ParkingPermitWoes · 23/01/2023 10:49

Well she's watched some gore and scary films but with us and nothing on Scream level. If she's watched Hot Fuzz can she handle this?!

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JonSnowedUnder · 23/01/2023 10:50

Yes, 15 is fine for Scream imo. I grew up on Scream, I know What You Did Last Summer, The Craft. All watched around 12 - 15ish.

I don't think it's too gory and being a bit dated makes it less scary.

ParkingPermitWoes · 23/01/2023 10:50

NotAnotherBathBomb · 23/01/2023 10:48

Are we talking about the same film? Scream has jumps but is very exaggerated horror, it's almost comical

Thank you - I just can't remember it and a google search leads to absolutely not which is why I'm asking!

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Ponoka7 · 23/01/2023 10:50

Mine would have been fine to watch it from about 13. But I wouldn't have ok'd anything that could cause anxiety when in the house alone, or nightmares. I don't watch home invasions for that reason, but I love horror as does my youngest. She won't watch things like Saw. If she really wants to, I'd discuss the contents and worries about her watching it. Then decide.

BessMarvin · 23/01/2023 10:51

Depends how sensitive she is to this kind of stuff. I am very, and I still feel traumatised by it having seen it and the second one (in the 90s in late teens I guess).

TinaYouFatLard · 23/01/2023 10:51

Of course it’s fine. She’s nearly 15!!!

fUNNYfACE36 · 23/01/2023 10:54

I think you will have to accept that she?will probably watch it regardless

Duckswaddle · 23/01/2023 10:54

Definitely fine. I was watching films like that at her age. I’d be amazed if she hasn’t seen/heard/known about similar films by now. She’s nearly 15!