to be pissed of when people don't bother to say thankyou?

[2shoes]

i won some free tickets in a raffle(swimming) no good for us so I asked on local. sent them out to a person. never heard a word!!!
I sent a copy of the school xmas play to one of dd's classmates mums. never even got a note.
if it me or are people severely lacking in manners theses days.
(both these people have my email address)

thank you for posting

They are severely lacking in manners, YANBU.

YANBU. Both of these people are rude.

lol twiglett. thank you for your thankyou
and thankyou to every one who posts

YANBU
thank you

YANBU

YANBU

And you're welcome

Thankyou for writing this thread.
I agree, it is rude not to say thankyou to someone who has gone out of their way to help you.

i know what you mean i used to work in a sandwiche shop and some people are just so rude no please or thank you a lot of the time

this is one of the things that drives me mad - it is so rude

YANBU

I get pissed off when people dont thank me when I let them thru when driving, to the point where I now dont let anyone thru and dont thank anyone and it doesnt bother me so much

thank you so much fro your answers. i helps to know I am not alone

YANBU - I hate it when people don't say thank you too - its basic manners.

Mosschops - this really winds DP up too and he does the same now. I always say to him that perhaps the people who were not saying thank you to him before were doing it for the same reason and everyone is just paying bad manners forward. Go on - say thank you again - it makes you the better person

YANBU, I think thankyou should be something that people say because they mean it though, not as an automatic response, if for example I hold a door open for someone I prefer a smile and a nod than a verbal thankyou that sounds like I've forced them to say it, but with the two things you did, and went out of your way to do, I would have thought a thankyou was the least they could of done.

if htis happened to me id be right in their face
"did you get the copy of the school play? is it alright? HMMM?"

i will do next time I see her. hopefully the mner will flounce(lol joke)