To check DP's messages after a fight?

[okrrr]

I expect he might have said some unpleasant things about me while angry as we didn't speak for a whole day... and he's left his laptop downstairs so I could look.

Would you rather know if your DP had done this or not?

If you are willing to betray his trust and snoop on him is there really any point in continuing the relationship?

Don't snoop.

We all say things that are unpleasant when upset.

Don't look, what good will it do?

Don't ask questions you can't handle the answers to.

Also, don't snoop. It's shitty.

No don’t do it; if you don’t trust him then break up

It honestly wouldn’t occur to me to check messages if we have a disagreement.

My DH snooping on me would be pretty much unforgivable. Neither of us would do that to each other though

Why would you think you have a right to see his private conversations? Do you never vent to friends about a bad day or a shitty argument?

Imo if you feel the need to do this or actually go ahead and do it then the trust is basically gone so what's the point in the relationship anyway? You don't have the right to invade anyones privacy like that.

Why would you?